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What I struggle with…
Normal - what’s normal. Some of the behaviour and things I see on here, are just not normal. I know “normal” just isn’t a fair context, but come on… there are levels from ok to really really not ok.
Fetish - I’m ok if you have a fetish, just not sure we all need to see it on a public feed. I think people sometimes post for shock and maybe even negative reactions. If you see a post get 20 plus likes and you have none. I would safely assume it’s the context of the post that should probably be private.
Kinks- again. We all “like” “fantasise” about certain things but dm someone you think or appears to be into similar things. Or get to know people to find out.
AI - honestly don’t get me started. If it’s AI label the picture AI. And if you don’t then what’s the point of showing me a picture I can create on the internet in 5 seconds. It’s pointless. I like video game characters more than I do those pictures.
Now if you want to share how you “could” look if done right then fair enough. But be honest. In other words your not fooling anyone. And if you are then it’s nothing to be proud of.
Site Attraction - I think more people would descend on this site if the public wall/feed looked more inclusive. Instead it’s becoming a fetish/kink site and it’s gone beyond tasteful. I’m ok with lingerie (I have a few of those) but put some elegance, photographic flare to it.
I’m aware I can offend and most likely have but it’s freedom of speech and there’s not enough honest discussion on it.
Can we honestly say when we scroll the feed anything more than 10% is of interesting and inviting content.
Age range - For me I get sad I can’t see my 40 something comparable/relatable people. I get jealous there’s so many other generations on here that get to relate to each other. I want more people 30 - 40 to come on here. Come talk to me. We grew up in the same era. Saw the same shows/movies/music. I want to connect.
That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy others to talk to of a different age group. I genuinely do. You know who you are.
It’s just your experiences most likely differ to certain extents.
Hope whoever reads this feels they can come have a chat with me.
Normal - what’s normal. Some of the behaviour and things I see on here, are just not normal. I know “normal” just isn’t a fair context, but come on… there are levels from ok to really really not ok.
Fetish - I’m ok if you have a fetish, just not sure we all need to see it on a public feed. I think people sometimes post for shock and maybe even negative reactions. If you see a post get 20 plus likes and you have none. I would safely assume it’s the context of the post that should probably be private.
Kinks- again. We all “like” “fantasise” about certain things but dm someone you think or appears to be into similar things. Or get to know people to find out.
AI - honestly don’t get me started. If it’s AI label the picture AI. And if you don’t then what’s the point of showing me a picture I can create on the internet in 5 seconds. It’s pointless. I like video game characters more than I do those pictures.
Now if you want to share how you “could” look if done right then fair enough. But be honest. In other words your not fooling anyone. And if you are then it’s nothing to be proud of.
Site Attraction - I think more people would descend on this site if the public wall/feed looked more inclusive. Instead it’s becoming a fetish/kink site and it’s gone beyond tasteful. I’m ok with lingerie (I have a few of those) but put some elegance, photographic flare to it.
I’m aware I can offend and most likely have but it’s freedom of speech and there’s not enough honest discussion on it.
Can we honestly say when we scroll the feed anything more than 10% is of interesting and inviting content.
Age range - For me I get sad I can’t see my 40 something comparable/relatable people. I get jealous there’s so many other generations on here that get to relate to each other. I want more people 30 - 40 to come on here. Come talk to me. We grew up in the same era. Saw the same shows/movies/music. I want to connect.
That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy others to talk to of a different age group. I genuinely do. You know who you are.
It’s just your experiences most likely differ to certain extents.
Hope whoever reads this feels they can come have a chat with me.
What I struggle with…
Normal - what’s normal. Some of the behaviour and things I see on here, are just not normal. I know “normal” just isn’t a fair context, but come on… there are levels from ok to really really not ok.
Fetish - I’m ok if you have a fetish, just not sure we all need to see it on a public feed. I think people sometimes post for shock and maybe even negative reactions. If you see a post get 20 plus likes and you have none. I would safely assume it’s the context of the post that should probably be private.
Kinks- again. We all “like” “fantasise” about certain things but dm someone you think or appears to be into similar things. Or get to know people to find out.
AI - honestly don’t get me started. If it’s AI label the picture AI. And if you don’t then what’s the point of showing me a picture I can create on the internet in 5 seconds. It’s pointless. I like video game characters more than I do those pictures.
Now if you want to share how you “could” look if done right then fair enough. But be honest. In other words your not fooling anyone. And if you are then it’s nothing to be proud of.
Site Attraction - I think more people would descend on this site if the public wall/feed looked more inclusive. Instead it’s becoming a fetish/kink site and it’s gone beyond tasteful. I’m ok with lingerie (I have a few of those) but put some elegance, photographic flare to it.
I’m aware I can offend and most likely have but it’s freedom of speech and there’s not enough honest discussion on it.
Can we honestly say when we scroll the feed anything more than 10% is of interesting and inviting content.
Age range - For me I get sad I can’t see my 40 something comparable/relatable people. I get jealous there’s so many other generations on here that get to relate to each other. I want more people 30 - 40 to come on here. Come talk to me. We grew up in the same era. Saw the same shows/movies/music. I want to connect.
That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy others to talk to of a different age group. I genuinely do. You know who you are.
It’s just your experiences most likely differ to certain extents.
Hope whoever reads this feels they can come have a chat with me. 🙂
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