a really nice photo of one of my Facebook friends photo he a Crossdress

I really like Halloween

Just for a bit of attention really xx

Dressing to Be Seen
The Act of Being Seen
Every relationship has two nervous systems in dialogue. Touch, tone, scent, gaze — and appearance. To dress for the other is not submission. It is signal. It says: I am present. I am visible. I am offering coherence to the field between us.
• Neurochemical effect: anticipation (dopamine), shared pleasure (oxytocin), grounding in ritual (serotonin).
• Psychological effect: amplifies self through the eyes of the beloved; creates cycles of gift and reception.
• Graffiti: Being seen is not shallow. It is sacred.
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Archetypes of Dress in Relationship
• The Siren (short dress, bold cut): calls desire into the room. Plays with chase and capture.
• The Oracle (flowing gowns, layers, veils): slows time, creating atmosphere of reverence.
• The Trickster (unexpected combinations, clashing patterns, gender-bent outfits): destabilises expectation, awakens novelty.
• The Sovereign (tailored lines, strong shoes, grounded presence): communicates stability, clarity, power.
𓂀 To choose consciously is to decide what archetype you invite into the space between you.
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Ritual of the Mirror
The mirror is not for correction. The mirror is the first witness.
• Stand. Dress slowly. Watch yourself enter the role.
• Observe not flaws, but signals: Does this dress invite softness? Does this jacket sharpen presence?
• Let the mirror witness the archetype you are summoning before your partner ever sees it.
Graffiti: The mirror is the first lover.
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The Exchange of Gaze
When you arrive dressed — whether in thigh-highs or a plain white T-shirt — the real act is the exchange of gaze.
• To be looked at with reverence releases oxytocin, lowering defences.
• To be looked at with hunger ignites dopamine, sharpening attention.
• To be looked at with ridicule collapses trust, burning cortisol into the archive.
The choice of dress sets the conditions for which gaze is invited.
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The Triad of Relationship Dress
1. Signal to Self — what energy am I summoning in my own nervous system?
2. Signal to Beloved — what state do I invite in theirs?
3. Signal to Field — what story does our shared appearance tell to the world?
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Final Reflection
Dressing to be seen is not frivolous. It is infrastructure. It is how nervous systems negotiate attraction, trust, play, and belonging.
To ignore it is to surrender the field to default.
To wield it consciously is to turn clothing into compass.
To be seen is to be alive.

Purging and Relapse: The Closet Emptied, the Closet Filled
Every sissy knows the ritual of purging.
The drawer emptied into a trash bag. The bag hidden under other garbage so no one will know. The silent vow: Never again.
The relief is immediate. Shame is gone — for a day, a week, a month. But then the ache returns. The scroll begins. Another package arrives. The drawer fills again.
Relapse feels like failure. But it is not failure. It is the nervous system struggling to hold contradictions too heavy to carry.
Why We Purge
Purging is an attempt at control. The body surges with guilt, cortisol spikes, and the mind seeks a way out. If the clothes are gone, the ghost is gone. If Maria is erased, the shame will end.
But Maria is not in the drawer. She is in the soil of your body. Throwing away fabric cannot silence her. The purge never removes her; it only resets the cycle.
The False Relief
The moment after purging feels like freedom. But it is not freedom — it is emptiness. What you feel is not sovereignty but sedation. The closet is not healed; it is hollow.
Soon the body remembers. Desire stirs. The loop rebuilds. And you are back where you began, only now with more shame: Why did I waste money? Why can’t I stop?
Maria’s Perspective
Maria does not condemn the purge. She understands it. She knows you were not trying to destroy her; you were trying to silence the unbearable tension between ghost and mask.
But she whispers: What if, this time, you don’t throw me away? What if you let me stay — not as secret, not as shame, but as part of you?
From Purge to Integration
The way forward is not in the trash bag. It is in integration. Instead of purging, you begin to curate. Instead of relapse, you begin to allow.
One dress left in the drawer. One garment worn without rushing to climax. One name whispered aloud without apology. Small acts of sovereignty that soften the nervous system, teaching it that Maria does not need to be hidden or destroyed.
The End of Relapse
Relapse ends not when desire disappears but when shame does. When Maria is allowed to live in the open, the cycle breaks. You no longer swing between indulgence and destruction. You live in continuity, not collapse.
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Reflection: From Purge to Presence
1. Your Last Purge
Recall the last time you threw everything away. What drove you to it? Write down the fear in detail.
2. The Relief
How long did the relief last before the ache returned? Write the number of days or weeks.
3. Maria’s Drawer
Imagine one item you could keep — not hidden in shame, not thrown away, but kept as Maria’s presence. Write: This piece reminds me that Maria is real.
4. Breaking the Cycle
Write one sentence beginning: Next time I feel the urge to purge, I will… (breathe, call a friend, remind myself Maria cannot be thrown away).

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I really like site its nice to chat with like minded people .ive made so good friends on this site i even meet up with some of them for a drinks and fun

Feeling really good in this

Hello everyone - the breasts are all mine and really show in this sleepwear. Also, my arms are soft - cannot do a single chin up or regular push up. Yes, I can do a woman's push up. What has happened to me? Love comments from my friends.

Hi ladies, disappointing start to the day for me … I was really tempted to keep my nail varnish on for my doctor’s appointment, but wimped out at the last moment. Others go out fully cross-dressed! I have a very long way to go

Here's one part of my night in red with a friend. She really put me through the ringer. Definitely think my gait needs a lot of work. Haha

Wanted to upload the whole set but seems the whole is too much. Gonna have to upload in bunches and parts.

One of these days I'm gonna release the full set for these but just uploading one as a mini celebration. Started this journey at March of this year and weighing in at 100 kg. For a 5'8" guy, I had not realized how perilous that was and recently having connected with my urge to crossdress, getting fit seemed like a good fit.

For a while now, it just seemed I had hit a 80kg wall. Good progress for sure but I've been aiming for 73kg as the soft target for health but stretching that to 64kg for figure purposes. Well, now for the first time in a while, finally hit sub-80 at 79.55kg. Pretty sure it's just the first fluctuation but I'm elated my efforts seem to be working.

Now for those next 7kg and further to come!

I understand that as Crossdressers we like and want to look like women. While we can look very femme fully dressed unfortunately our bodies are not the same as a females so what looks good and sexy on a real woman very rarely looks as good when we wear the same. What may look fabulous on a woman will not look as good on us and in most cases can be quite off putting.

Before I go and do something else, I'd like to share a little thought of mine. I've been observing this app for a while now, and there are some cute girls, even cross-dressers, that I'd really like to meet. I should point out that I'm not the type of guy who immediately throws himself at a girl as soon as he sees her, but I am very curious, and I just think it's a shame that there's so much selectivity here. I'd really like to go back on the app tonight and find someone who'd like to get to know me as a friend or something else. Maybe it's because I'm not like you that I'm excluded. I don't know, but I do know that despite everything, my desire to get to know this community is still very strong, even if it doesn't seem like it. I hope that soon I'll find some interesting people. In the meantime, I'll leave you with a little smile as a sign of my availability for anyone who would like a serious friend.

I really like retro lingerie photos .

Sometimes I too would like to disconnect from reality from problems and indulge in some cuddling with someone who like me just wants to feel loved and wanted but I notice that many here in particular misunderstand and immediately judge well those so honestly I don't despise that they decide to take and block but more for a matter that like them they will have their own ideas I as well don't want to find people who don't seriously want anything but to show off I hope time has brought in people like me who know what they really want

Hey everyone, just wanted to give you a quick update. I made it through, and the surgery was a complete success.

Now, about six weeks later, it still feels kind of surreal to say that I actually have a vagina. There’s still swelling and some pain, but the hardest part is definitely behind me. Day by day it’s starting to feel more natural, even if recovery is still a challenge.

And honestly, putting something inside down there still feels pretty strange, haha, but I’m just glad I’ve made it this far.

Finally live my life as a Woman

really off to bed lol night night

Have a nice evening girls, I finally have time to be a sissy, I really enjoyed it and I want to share my photos with you, I hope you like them, your sissy Petra ❤

Tell me which one you like
I really love this dress

I have thought about showing off my feminine arms. Muscles? Tell me what you all think? Love your comments. --- Had a guy tell me I was in the wrong bathroom just last week. I really like the unisex or family ones - so much easier as most guys think they are in the wrong bathroom when I use the men's one. Or they want me to leave.

I need a real mommy and friends

Should really go to sleep but Can’t take my boots off

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i sometimes wonder whether the reason so many of people's pics on here are taken in really messy, untidy, chaotic settings is cos if they tidied up the Mrs would take over the newly-available space and they'd have nowhere to stash the clothes....

What is the average cost of keyholding? I’ve been curious about this for a while, and I’d love to hear from folks with real experience.

For those of you who’ve arranged keyholding (either online or in-person), what did it typically cost?

Was it a one-off payment, a monthly fee, or per session?

Did the price vary depending on whether it was a professional/keyholding service, or more of a lifestyle/Dom(me) arrangement?

Beyond the numbers, did you feel the cost reflected the time, effort, and trust that goes into it?

And while we’re at it, how many of you have come across scams or people asking for money with nothing in return? Always good to know what red flags to watch for.

I know every dynamic is different, but it would be really helpful to hear what’s “normal” or average out there.

Thanks in advance for sharing, I’m sure others here are just as curious too!

Hey everyone.
First day back after a family holiday, back to the normal routine. Back to work!! I work in the construction industry, a very masculine industry, and it's what I have been doing since I left school. I am a joiner, have my own workshop and work on my own most of the time. I always wear knickers to work and in the winter, when it's cold and I'm always wearing a jumper I usually wear a lacy body, basque or sometimes a corset under my work clothes. Always wearing stockings, hold ups obviously. It's my way of bringing Sammy into my everyday life, in secret of course. It's hard to make changes to your body without it being noticed, have to be slow and subtle.
It's also back to the exercise routine. Had a bit of over indulgence whilst away so got to get rid of the tummy. Also saw lots of lovely bums in bikinis on the beach and was so envious. I really need to improve my bum. Any tips anyone to get a bigger shaplier butt?
Sammy. Xx

Thought I would love these tights, but not really doing it for me.

My new shoes and tights, not really the perfect match together

I don't know about you, but I really like editing my photos

Just putting it out there,,,,,, "it's really disappointing getting Ghosted"

Biologically born males turned sissies like the newbies, have a nasty history of neglecting the skin on our faces. Growing up, it was considered neither masculine nor necessary to spend time on something that was not really all that important.

Well, things are changing for many men in that regard, especially as they grow older. And for us sissies, a sissy skin care routine is not only necessary but mandatory.

Genetic girls have always been keenly aware of how important it is to pamper their skin. They realize that although makeup can cover up many imperfections, beginning with a clean canvas, will allow makeup application to perform it’s beautification magic even better.

It’s time for sissies to follow suit and get on the skin care routine beauty bandwagon that has been more-or-less ignored by many of us for so long. A girl’s face is her most prized asset and it needs to be pampered accordingly. DM for your domination feminized training session on Telegram @HardDiscipline1

I guess literally 'NOBODY' is monitoring the site now? I say this, only because, 99 percent of the 'adverts' which now dominate the site, appear to show very questionable photos (as regards the age of the females shown) To me, a lot of them, look very close to being 'underage' This place, really has turned into a Pervs Paradise now.........such a shame. xx

Blew the dust off them and stuck them on. Really comfortable, when sitting!

You girls are really showing some beautiful legs and heels this evening!!wow well done getting me aroused babes all of you xx

Dressing like wednesday as wednesday season 2 was really good

I really like how good my legs look in this one. I hope you do too.
Sophie

Feeling really horny this morning. Who wants to help relieve me?

Never really wear red but felt right

I was asked last night about my shoes and if i had some really high heels.
So i thought I'd share. These are the highest heels I own, I have this pair and another the same but in Blue.
I got them both from ebay, BNIB. I don't wear them often as you need the right occasion but they are so amazing to wear.
Paired today with stiletto seamed nylon stocking and suspender and a slinky black dress. The dress is Gok Wan by Tu, bought several years ago figure hugging and so nice to wear

Had to block/ignore a couple of people today, OK i get that some have their fetishes and roles they want to share, but when they fill up my feed and i'd rather see nice outfits and smiling people, hear real thoughts and opinions, well sorry, the chaff gets winnowed from the grain...