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- wondering if i should try and find an outfit like the B1tch Finder General. I used to have a hat like hers when I was in and English Civil War society the Sealed Knot. Always loved dressing up.wondering if i should try and find an outfit like the B1tch Finder General. I used to have a hat like hers when I was in and English Civil War society the Sealed Knot. Always loved dressing up.
5 Comments 0 Shares 790 Views 5 - Oh my. These outfits all look so sexy to me. I wish I could try them all on!Oh my. These outfits all look so sexy to me. I wish I could try them all on! 😊0 Comments 0 Shares 850 Views 2
- Here's my outfit for the scariest night of the year... I love Halloween It's a great opportunity to show off my legs and my big ass...
waddling around in a crowd, fearing I'll be accidentally brushed up against someone or purposely groped... I'm already horny just thinking about it...
#sissy #waddling #ssissyslut
#hallowen #sexsyhallowen #orny #girley #crossdresser #sissymaidHere's my outfit for the scariest night of the year... I love Halloween 🎃 It's a great opportunity to show off my legs and my big ass... waddling around in a crowd, fearing I'll be accidentally brushed up against someone or purposely groped... I'm already horny just thinking about it...💃👄👠🍌💅💝😻💍💍💄💋💋💋🍑🍑🍑👑👗🩱🐩🐩 #sissy #waddling #ssissyslut #hallowen #sexsyhallowen #orny #girley #crossdresser #sissymaid5 Comments 0 Shares 3885 Views 18
- Between Silk and Skin: Understanding the Line Between Crossdressing and Being Transgender
By Chrissy
“Maybe I’m not one or the other. Maybe I’m something in between—and that’s okay.”
What’s the Difference?
When people hear “crossdresser” and “transgender,” they often picture the same thing—or get the definitions confused. But these words speak to different experiences, identities, and emotional landscapes.
In simple terms:
Crossdresser: A person (usually male-assigned at birth) who enjoys dressing in clothing typically associated with another gender, usually for self-expression, fun, comfort, identity exploration, or even erotic reasons. This doesn’t necessarily mean they want to live as that gender full-time.
Transgender: Someone whose gender identity is different from the sex they were assigned at birth. A transgender woman was assigned male at birth but identifies as a woman—and may or may not take steps to socially, medically, or legally transition.
🩷 My Journey (So Far)
I’m still figuring it all out.
For most of my life, I lived as a man—because that’s what the world expected. But in quiet moments, in safe spaces, I allowed my femininity to surface. At first, I called it crossdressing. I liked how I felt in soft clothes, in cute outfits, in long hair and smooth skin. It was sensual… empowering… liberating. But it wasn’t just the clothes—it was me, underneath them.
I still don’t know where I fall on the spectrum. Maybe I’m a crossdresser. Maybe I’m genderfluid. Maybe I’m a transgender woman still waiting to be born. What I do know is this:
I feel most alive when I’m Chrissy.
I feel most whole when I’m seen.
I feel most me when I stop trying to choose sides.
🫶 A Spectrum, Not a Binary
Gender is not black and white—it’s fluid, rich, and deeply personal. Some crossdressers live full, happy lives identifying as men who occasionally (or frequently) express femininity. Some transgender women started out crossdressing because it was safer than admitting the truth.
Others—like me—are still discovering who they are.
You might ask:
Am I a crossdresser or something more?
What does it mean if I like being called “she” sometimes?
Do I want to be a woman or just look like one?
The answer might be “yes,” “no,” “sometimes,” or “I’m not sure yet.” And all of those are valid.
A Note on Shame and Freedom
Growing up, I repressed my feminine side. I feared being laughed at, rejected, or labeled. I used filters to feminize my face online—not to trick anyone, but because I liked how I looked. It made me feel beautiful. For now, it’s my way of being seen.
One day, I’ll do the makeup. The hair. The outfit.
One day, I’ll walk outside and own her.
For now, I’m just beginning.
If you feel the same—if you’re navigating the space between crossdressing and being trans—you are not alone.
Final Thoughts
You don’t need to rush toward a label. You don’t need to transition or explain yourself to anyone. You don’t need to choose “male” or “female” like you’re checking a box.
You just need to be—whatever that means, however that looks, however long it takes.
You’re not broken.
You’re not confused.
You’re becoming.
And I’m becoming right there with you.
What are your thoughts?
With love,
— Chrissy🌸 Between Silk and Skin: Understanding the Line Between Crossdressing and Being Transgender By Chrissy “Maybe I’m not one or the other. Maybe I’m something in between—and that’s okay.” 🧠 What’s the Difference? When people hear “crossdresser” and “transgender,” they often picture the same thing—or get the definitions confused. But these words speak to different experiences, identities, and emotional landscapes. In simple terms: Crossdresser: A person (usually male-assigned at birth) who enjoys dressing in clothing typically associated with another gender, usually for self-expression, fun, comfort, identity exploration, or even erotic reasons. This doesn’t necessarily mean they want to live as that gender full-time. Transgender: Someone whose gender identity is different from the sex they were assigned at birth. A transgender woman was assigned male at birth but identifies as a woman—and may or may not take steps to socially, medically, or legally transition. 🩷 My Journey (So Far) I’m still figuring it all out. For most of my life, I lived as a man—because that’s what the world expected. But in quiet moments, in safe spaces, I allowed my femininity to surface. At first, I called it crossdressing. I liked how I felt in soft clothes, in cute outfits, in long hair and smooth skin. It was sensual… empowering… liberating. But it wasn’t just the clothes—it was me, underneath them. I still don’t know where I fall on the spectrum. Maybe I’m a crossdresser. Maybe I’m genderfluid. Maybe I’m a transgender woman still waiting to be born. What I do know is this: I feel most alive when I’m Chrissy. I feel most whole when I’m seen. I feel most me when I stop trying to choose sides. 🫶 A Spectrum, Not a Binary Gender is not black and white—it’s fluid, rich, and deeply personal. Some crossdressers live full, happy lives identifying as men who occasionally (or frequently) express femininity. Some transgender women started out crossdressing because it was safer than admitting the truth. Others—like me—are still discovering who they are. You might ask: Am I a crossdresser or something more? What does it mean if I like being called “she” sometimes? Do I want to be a woman or just look like one? The answer might be “yes,” “no,” “sometimes,” or “I’m not sure yet.” And all of those are valid. 💬 A Note on Shame and Freedom Growing up, I repressed my feminine side. I feared being laughed at, rejected, or labeled. I used filters to feminize my face online—not to trick anyone, but because I liked how I looked. It made me feel beautiful. For now, it’s my way of being seen. One day, I’ll do the makeup. The hair. The outfit. One day, I’ll walk outside and own her. For now, I’m just beginning. If you feel the same—if you’re navigating the space between crossdressing and being trans—you are not alone. 🎀 Final Thoughts You don’t need to rush toward a label. You don’t need to transition or explain yourself to anyone. You don’t need to choose “male” or “female” like you’re checking a box. You just need to be—whatever that means, however that looks, however long it takes. You’re not broken. You’re not confused. You’re becoming. And I’m becoming right there with you. What are your thoughts? With love, — Chrissy0 Comments 0 Shares 3328 Views3 - I weighed 16st and a dress size 18
I’m now down to 14st and a dress size 14 in 4 weeks.
I want to get down to 10st
So I can fit in to
Some of the dresses and outfits I have bought.
I should be a 8-10 in dress size once I attain the weight.
Hugs
VeronaI weighed 16st and a dress size 18 I’m now down to 14st and a dress size 14 in 4 weeks. I want to get down to 10st So I can fit in to Some of the dresses and outfits I have bought. I should be a 8-10 in dress size once I attain the weight. Hugs Verona 💋💋💋11 Comments 0 Shares 1890 Views 10 -
- I’ve had this fantasy where I’m catering/serving food snacks and drinks to a group of men at a superbowl party and tending to their needs.see I can care less about the game never cared for it .I would have so many different outfits to wear throughout the night while serving drinks.The playboy bunny outfit,the French maid,the geisha.I would see to it that they have a great partyI’ve had this fantasy where I’m catering/serving food snacks and drinks to a group of men at a superbowl party and tending to their needs.see I can care less about the game never cared for it .I would have so many different outfits to wear throughout the night while serving drinks.The playboy bunny outfit,the French maid,the geisha.I would see to it that they have a great party
2 Comments 0 Shares 2187 Views 19 - Had a lot of fun today with some of my photos. The photos are all me - yes is my body, as I have been feminizing it over the last 10+ years - But I tried some AI to change what I am wearing and the background. I do dance regularly so I am actually attuned to ballet studios and to dancing on stage. But the AI is so fun to try out - gives me great ideas for outfits and places I would like to go to. Let me know - comments please. I love to share comments and chat, when I can. I will always respond to your comments.Had a lot of fun today with some of my photos. The photos are all me - yes is my body, as I have been feminizing it over the last 10+ years - But I tried some AI to change what I am wearing and the background. I do dance regularly so I am actually attuned to ballet studios and to dancing on stage. But the AI is so fun to try out - gives me great ideas for outfits and places I would like to go to. Let me know - comments please. I love to share comments and chat, when I can. I will always respond to your comments.🥰
3 Comments 0 Shares 2804 Views7 - Good day everyone. Today I am modeling an outfit that was given to me as a gift. I really like this sports wear, the look. Light Blue is me today. Hope you all like seeing me in it. ---- My bra is a Jockey Brand - is slightly padded. Really love how it feels and would highly recommend to my girlfriends.Good day everyone. Today I am modeling an outfit that was given to me as a gift. I really like this sports wear, the look. Light Blue is me today. Hope you all like seeing me in it. 🥰 ---- My bra is a Jockey Brand - is slightly padded. Really love how it feels and would highly recommend to my girlfriends.5 Comments 0 Shares 2386 Views 9
- was supposed to buy a Police Woman outfit for a fancy dress party this weekend, However, someone I have had my eye on said they liked Stewardesses, am hoping to get a little luckywas supposed to buy a Police Woman outfit for a fancy dress party this weekend, However, someone I have had my eye on said they liked Stewardesses, am hoping to get a little lucky 🥰2 Comments 0 Shares 3204 Views 18
- Dressing to Be Seen
The Act of Being Seen
Every relationship has two nervous systems in dialogue. Touch, tone, scent, gaze — and appearance. To dress for the other is not submission. It is signal. It says: I am present. I am visible. I am offering coherence to the field between us.
• Neurochemical effect: anticipation (dopamine), shared pleasure (oxytocin), grounding in ritual (serotonin).
• Psychological effect: amplifies self through the eyes of the beloved; creates cycles of gift and reception.
• Graffiti: Being seen is not shallow. It is sacred.
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Archetypes of Dress in Relationship
• The Siren (short dress, bold cut): calls desire into the room. Plays with chase and capture.
• The Oracle (flowing gowns, layers, veils): slows time, creating atmosphere of reverence.
• The Trickster (unexpected combinations, clashing patterns, gender-bent outfits): destabilises expectation, awakens novelty.
• The Sovereign (tailored lines, strong shoes, grounded presence): communicates stability, clarity, power.
𓂀 To choose consciously is to decide what archetype you invite into the space between you.
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Ritual of the Mirror
The mirror is not for correction. The mirror is the first witness.
• Stand. Dress slowly. Watch yourself enter the role.
• Observe not flaws, but signals: Does this dress invite softness? Does this jacket sharpen presence?
• Let the mirror witness the archetype you are summoning before your partner ever sees it.
Graffiti: The mirror is the first lover.
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The Exchange of Gaze
When you arrive dressed — whether in thigh-highs or a plain white T-shirt — the real act is the exchange of gaze.
• To be looked at with reverence releases oxytocin, lowering defences.
• To be looked at with hunger ignites dopamine, sharpening attention.
• To be looked at with ridicule collapses trust, burning cortisol into the archive.
The choice of dress sets the conditions for which gaze is invited.
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The Triad of Relationship Dress
1. Signal to Self — what energy am I summoning in my own nervous system?
2. Signal to Beloved — what state do I invite in theirs?
3. Signal to Field — what story does our shared appearance tell to the world?
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Final Reflection
Dressing to be seen is not frivolous. It is infrastructure. It is how nervous systems negotiate attraction, trust, play, and belonging.
To ignore it is to surrender the field to default.
To wield it consciously is to turn clothing into compass.
To be seen is to be alive.
Dressing to Be Seen The Act of Being Seen Every relationship has two nervous systems in dialogue. Touch, tone, scent, gaze — and appearance. To dress for the other is not submission. It is signal. It says: I am present. I am visible. I am offering coherence to the field between us. • Neurochemical effect: anticipation (dopamine), shared pleasure (oxytocin), grounding in ritual (serotonin). • Psychological effect: amplifies self through the eyes of the beloved; creates cycles of gift and reception. • Graffiti: ⚡ Being seen is not shallow. It is sacred. ________________________________________ Archetypes of Dress in Relationship • The Siren (short dress, bold cut): calls desire into the room. Plays with chase and capture. • The Oracle (flowing gowns, layers, veils): slows time, creating atmosphere of reverence. • The Trickster (unexpected combinations, clashing patterns, gender-bent outfits): destabilises expectation, awakens novelty. • The Sovereign (tailored lines, strong shoes, grounded presence): communicates stability, clarity, power. 𓂀 To choose consciously is to decide what archetype you invite into the space between you. ________________________________________ Ritual of the Mirror The mirror is not for correction. The mirror is the first witness. • Stand. Dress slowly. Watch yourself enter the role. • Observe not flaws, but signals: Does this dress invite softness? Does this jacket sharpen presence? • Let the mirror witness the archetype you are summoning before your partner ever sees it. Graffiti: 🩸 The mirror is the first lover. ________________________________________ The Exchange of Gaze When you arrive dressed — whether in thigh-highs or a plain white T-shirt — the real act is the exchange of gaze. • To be looked at with reverence releases oxytocin, lowering defences. • To be looked at with hunger ignites dopamine, sharpening attention. • To be looked at with ridicule collapses trust, burning cortisol into the archive. The choice of dress sets the conditions for which gaze is invited. ________________________________________ The Triad of Relationship Dress 1. Signal to Self — what energy am I summoning in my own nervous system? 2. Signal to Beloved — what state do I invite in theirs? 3. Signal to Field — what story does our shared appearance tell to the world? ________________________________________ Final Reflection Dressing to be seen is not frivolous. It is infrastructure. It is how nervous systems negotiate attraction, trust, play, and belonging. 🌱 To ignore it is to surrender the field to default. ⚡ To wield it consciously is to turn clothing into compass. 🩸 To be seen is to be alive.2 Comments 0 Shares 5274 Views 4 -
- Morning all. I hope you all have a wonderful Friday and an amazing weekend.
Todays outfit is Orublu sheer sun tan pantyhose with M&S turquoise lacy lingerie. A blue dress, from Lands' End and denim effect heels by even&odd from Zalando.
Morning all. I hope you all have a wonderful Friday and an amazing weekend. Todays outfit is Orublu sheer sun tan pantyhose with M&S turquoise lacy lingerie. A blue dress, from Lands' End and denim effect heels by even&odd from Zalando.6 Comments 0 Shares 3413 Views 15 - In my fav stockings tonight enjoying a glass of Rioja I did get a new outfit today, A maid outfit from AliX, And guess what? it doesn't fit!! Waist and shoulders far too tight. Oh well, I might have to get the sewing machine out and alter it at some pointIn my fav stockings tonight enjoying a glass of Rioja 😍 I did get a new outfit today, A maid outfit from AliX, And guess what? it doesn't fit!! Waist and shoulders far too tight. Oh well, I might have to get the sewing machine out and alter it at some point 🤣🤣🤣
25 Comments 0 Shares 3843 Views 20 - I'm getting an outfit together to go out dressed in the daytime but one of several obstacles is that I can't leave the house in the full outfit. I could put some of it on under some normal clothes but where do I get changed? Not many lay-bys near me. Supermarket car park would be a bit open. There is a motorway services but could be busy. It's a tricky one.I'm getting an outfit together to go out dressed in the daytime but one of several obstacles is that I can't leave the house in the full outfit. I could put some of it on under some normal clothes but where do I get changed? Not many lay-bys near me. Supermarket car park would be a bit open. There is a motorway services but could be busy. It's a tricky one.6 Comments 0 Shares 4051 Views1
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Hi, I’m Gabby — and sometimes, I’m Maria (that's my wife's name for what she sees but cant explain).
Cross-dressing has been part of my life for years, but always in tension: part joy, part shame, part secret. I’ve deleted and restarted more times than I can count. Every time I tried to bury it, Gabby came back louder — the trickster, the jester, the side of me that refuses to disappear.
I’m here because I don’t want to erase her anymore. I want to find healthier ways of giving this side of me space without sliding into performance or getting lost in porn loops. Clothes are my doorway — I love the feel of fabric, heels, make-up, the way an outfit changes how I carry myself. But behind the clothes is a bigger question: how to live authentically, how to connect, how to tend the parts of us that don’t fit empire’s mould.
Challenges? Plenty. My wife knows a little and has her own boundaries to protect herself and our marriage. Intimacy is complicated. Sometimes the desire feels nourishing, other times it turns furious and messy. What I’m learning is that secrecy makes it worse; connection makes it human.
So this is me, showing up in human form. If you’re here for support, for clothes, for honest conversation, I’d love to meet you. If you’ve struggled with balance, I’d love to hear how you found yours.Draft Bio Hi, I’m Gabby — and sometimes, I’m Maria (that's my wife's name for what she sees but cant explain). Cross-dressing has been part of my life for years, but always in tension: part joy, part shame, part secret. I’ve deleted and restarted more times than I can count. Every time I tried to bury it, Gabby came back louder — the trickster, the jester, the side of me that refuses to disappear. I’m here because I don’t want to erase her anymore. I want to find healthier ways of giving this side of me space without sliding into performance or getting lost in porn loops. Clothes are my doorway — I love the feel of fabric, heels, make-up, the way an outfit changes how I carry myself. But behind the clothes is a bigger question: how to live authentically, how to connect, how to tend the parts of us that don’t fit empire’s mould. Challenges? Plenty. My wife knows a little and has her own boundaries to protect herself and our marriage. Intimacy is complicated. Sometimes the desire feels nourishing, other times it turns furious and messy. What I’m learning is that secrecy makes it worse; connection makes it human. So this is me, showing up in human form. If you’re here for support, for clothes, for honest conversation, I’d love to meet you. If you’ve struggled with balance, I’d love to hear how you found yours.10 Comments 0 Shares 4288 Views 13 -
- I am posting this here as a challenge to myself. It's only been lately I embraced my liking of crossdressing. Previously I had the body for it but not the clarity of mind. After COVID, I had gained an unhealthy amount of weight and now the clothes that I want to look good wearing don't look too good. Gave this white number a try and well, you see the results. Granted, a corset does wonders but I want to be able to wear skimpier, more effeminate things outside of a corset.
So, I am marking the date this photo was taken: August 22 and marking the progress I get from here on out, help me stay motivated to keep working towards that target 65 kg. weight. I think at least most of the body is well shaped, but that waist, oof. Guess I should call this outfit the fertility *******. Haha
Either way, hope people who peep this photo can stand a less than optimal build for crossdressing. It is an in-between bod for now and I am working on, improving and getting it to where it should look great.I am posting this here as a challenge to myself. It's only been lately I embraced my liking of crossdressing. Previously I had the body for it but not the clarity of mind. After COVID, I had gained an unhealthy amount of weight and now the clothes that I want to look good wearing don't look too good. Gave this white number a try and well, you see the results. Granted, a corset does wonders but I want to be able to wear skimpier, more effeminate things outside of a corset. So, I am marking the date this photo was taken: August 22 and marking the progress I get from here on out, help me stay motivated to keep working towards that target 65 kg. weight. I think at least most of the body is well shaped, but that waist, oof. Guess I should call this outfit the fertility goddess. Haha Either way, hope people who peep this photo can stand a less than optimal build for crossdressing. It is an in-between bod for now and I am working on, improving and getting it to where it should look great.
7 Comments 0 Shares 4228 Views 7 - had a morning to myself, so rather predictably went for my favourite outfit... Not a sissy, just a house maid
wish my seams were straighthad a morning to myself, so rather predictably went for my favourite outfit... Not a sissy, just a house maid 💋 wish my seams were straight 😔1 Comments 0 Shares 2414 Views 23
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