• I can be the kinky cameraman wearing a frilly petticoat and the camrea and sound man for some kinky asmr sound action and bent over behaviour x lol x
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    I can be the kinky cameraman wearing a frilly petticoat and the camrea and sound man for some kinky asmr sound action and bent over behaviour x lol 😂 ❤️ x #petticoat #asmr #sound #action
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  • Sometimes words are more than photos. I hope all my bbfs and bgfs out there are experiencing a rich fulfilled life. As I have about a dozen photos ready I am wanting to know what you like to see? Colors, clothing styles, poses, locations. As I feel that I am a woman expect a feminine image from me; without my distraction of what is in my panties, but I am quite sure I can come up with some pretty exciting looks. Would love to hear what you woud do to me in bed? I also love to chat when I can. Your journey and mine to share. I will allways answer a chat or question. I totally love comments on any of my nearly 300 past posts. As I said I will always respond to a chat or a question. Maybe not the same day because I only hang on this site for a few minutes at a time. But always. So XXX to all of you my friends.
    Sometimes words are more than photos. I hope all my bbfs and bgfs out there are experiencing a rich fulfilled life. As I have about a dozen photos ready I am wanting to know what you like to see? Colors, clothing styles, poses, locations. As I feel that I am a woman expect a feminine image from me; without my distraction of what is in my panties, but I am quite sure I can come up with some pretty exciting looks. Would love to hear what you woud do to me in bed? I also love to chat when I can. Your journey and mine to share. I will allways answer a chat or question. I totally love comments on any of my nearly 300 past posts. As I said I will always respond to a chat or a question. Maybe not the same day because I only hang on this site for a few minutes at a time. But always. So XXX to all of you my friends. 🥰 😍 🤩 🥰
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  • Just wanted to say a big thank you to all of you for the reactions to my posts and lovely comments I have received. Certainly makes a girls day 🫦
    Just wanted to say a big thank you to all of you for the reactions to my posts and lovely comments I have received. Certainly makes a girls day 💋👠💄🫦😘
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  • A member asked me why, if I enjoy co cks so much, why not just offer to suck any....
    I said well that's not the point, I actually don't ask that much.. A smooth shaven co ck with full head showing. That's my personal preference, one because it is much cleaner, ( just ask a Nurse) and two I cannot stand Hairs....
    The only Boundary I'm pushing is asking those interested to wear Tights, Stockings or Holdups.... Not exactly the end of the world is it..... My idea here is two fold, one I just love Lingerie and Smooth Co cks, it really really gets me going and Two, it could very well not be the last time there wear some, as I and all CDs know it can get very addictive... To be honest I think I may have an issue as I love smooth **** in Stockings probably too much....
    I wonder if the is a Co cks Annonomous
    I would travel more to meet other people offering there help with my Training but time is an issue when married and working, I often have a short window of opportunity of a couple of hours, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, on the occasional day off I may get longer.. most of my availability is between 2:30 and 4:30 at the latest... Hence why travelling is an issue...
    So if anyone can accommodate this then let me know, if I find a trustworthy person, they can come to my house but even then we would have to be careful.. or maybe I would end up servicing you in the workshop
    The other question I get is Why do you have to Swallow... Well again, I love it and no way am I cleaning that mess up
    It's much easier just swallowing it all and job done, no dirty lingerie either....
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    My original Details..........
    Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Training

    I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return,
    These are my criteria..
    Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks
    Full Co ck Head Showing
    5" or more when hard
    Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply)
    This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow.
    Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more...
    No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine.
    Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing.
    Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching.
    I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same.
    Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like.
    Contact me for any questions or details..
    This is my Profile:-
    https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/

    These are my Favourites:-
    https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/

    A member asked me why, if I enjoy co cks so much, why not just offer to suck any.... I said well that's not the point, I actually don't ask that much.. A smooth shaven co ck with full head showing. That's my personal preference, one because it is much cleaner, ( just ask a Nurse) and two I cannot stand Hairs.... The only Boundary I'm pushing is asking those interested to wear Tights, Stockings or Holdups.... Not exactly the end of the world is it..... My idea here is two fold, one I just love Lingerie and Smooth Co cks, it really really gets me going and Two, it could very well not be the last time there wear some, as I and all CDs know it can get very addictive... To be honest I think I may have an issue as I love smooth cock in Stockings probably too much.... I wonder if the is a Co cks Annonomous 😂 😂 I would travel more to meet other people offering there help with my Training but time is an issue when married and working, I often have a short window of opportunity of a couple of hours, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, on the occasional day off I may get longer.. most of my availability is between 2:30 and 4:30 at the latest... Hence why travelling is an issue... So if anyone can accommodate this then let me know, if I find a trustworthy person, they can come to my house but even then we would have to be careful.. or maybe I would end up servicing you in the workshop 😂 😂 The other question I get is Why do you have to Swallow... Well again, I love it and no way am I cleaning that mess up 😂 😂 It's much easier just swallowing it all and job done, no dirty lingerie either.... ______________________________________________ My original Details.......... Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Training I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return, These are my criteria.. Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks Full Co ck Head Showing 5" or more when hard Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply) This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow. Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more... No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine. Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing. Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching. I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same. Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like. Contact me for any questions or details.. This is my Profile:- https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/ These are my Favourites:- https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/
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  • A member asked me why, if I enjoy co cks so much, why not just offer to suck any....
    I said well that's not the point, I actually don't ask that much.. A smooth shaven co ck with full head showing. That's my personal preference, one because it is much cleaner, ( just ask a Nurse) and two I cannot stand Hairs....
    The only Boundary I'm pushing is asking those interested to wear Tights, Stockings or Holdups.... Not exactly the end of the world is it..... My idea here is two fold, one I just love Lingerie and Smooth Co cks, it really really gets me going and Two, it could very well not be the last time there wear some, as I and all CDs know it can get very addictive... To be honest I think I may have an issue as I love smooth **** in Stockings probably too much....
    I wonder if the is a Co cks Annonomous
    I would travel more to meet other people offering there help with my Training but time is an issue when married and working, I often have a short window of opportunity of a couple of hours, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, on the occasional day off I may get longer.. most of my availability is between 2:30 and 4:30 at the latest... Hence why travelling is an issue...
    So if anyone can accommodate this then let me know, if I find a trustworthy person, they can come to my house but even then we would have to be careful.. or maybe I would end up servicing you in the workshop
    The other question I get is Why do you have to Swallow... Well again, I love it and no way am I cleaning that mess up
    It's much easier just swallowing it all and job done, no dirty lingerie either....
    ______________________________________________
    My original Details..........
    Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Training

    I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return,
    These are my criteria..
    Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks
    Full Co ck Head Showing
    5" or more when hard
    Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply)
    This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow.
    Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more...
    No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine.
    Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing.
    Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching.
    I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same.
    Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like.
    Contact me for any questions or details..
    This is my Profile:-
    https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/

    These are my Favourites:-
    https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/

    A member asked me why, if I enjoy co cks so much, why not just offer to suck any.... I said well that's not the point, I actually don't ask that much.. A smooth shaven co ck with full head showing. That's my personal preference, one because it is much cleaner, ( just ask a Nurse) and two I cannot stand Hairs.... The only Boundary I'm pushing is asking those interested to wear Tights, Stockings or Holdups.... Not exactly the end of the world is it..... My idea here is two fold, one I just love Lingerie and Smooth Co cks, it really really gets me going and Two, it could very well not be the last time there wear some, as I and all CDs know it can get very addictive... To be honest I think I may have an issue as I love smooth cock in Stockings probably too much.... I wonder if the is a Co cks Annonomous 😂 😂 I would travel more to meet other people offering there help with my Training but time is an issue when married and working, I often have a short window of opportunity of a couple of hours, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, on the occasional day off I may get longer.. most of my availability is between 2:30 and 4:30 at the latest... Hence why travelling is an issue... So if anyone can accommodate this then let me know, if I find a trustworthy person, they can come to my house but even then we would have to be careful.. or maybe I would end up servicing you in the workshop 😂 😂 The other question I get is Why do you have to Swallow... Well again, I love it and no way am I cleaning that mess up 😂 😂 It's much easier just swallowing it all and job done, no dirty lingerie either.... ______________________________________________ My original Details.......... Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Training I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return, These are my criteria.. Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks Full Co ck Head Showing 5" or more when hard Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply) This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow. Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more... No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine. Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing. Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching. I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same. Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like. Contact me for any questions or details.. This is my Profile:- https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/ These are my Favourites:- https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/
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  • Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Co ck

    I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return,

    These are my criteria.........
    1. Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks
    2. Full Co ck Head Showing
    3. Prefer 5" or more when hard
    4. You must be Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply)

    This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow.
    Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more...
    No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine.
    Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing.
    Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching.
    I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same.
    Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like.

    Contact me for any questions or details..

    This is my Profile:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/">www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/</a>

    These are my Favourites:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/">www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/</a>

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    In all cases I tend to have a rather get on with it sort of attitude, obviously everyone says hello and introduces themselves but time is prescious so getting down to business asap is just what I'm looking for. We will have got to know each other before by txt email or phone so when I arrive if you can just get comfortable, spread those legs, and let me have your co ck to feed from, it will allow me to be elsewhere or even get a second helping if your up to it....
    Look forward to hearing from you soon

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    It's been brought to my attention that some people offering there cocks for practice do NOT want to see my doing the task at hand, which Is perfectly understandable... Well other than closing your eyes there are a couple of options as it turns out...
    1. Is to sit at a Table with legs spread under the table, then I will be under the table doing my training... Uncomfortable but I don't mind if it helps.
    2. If you get on all fours with legs apart I can slide on my back behind you, lower you co ck down untill I can train like this.. this is the Reverse 69....
    Hope this helps xx

    If you are a CD anyway and fit the above criteria then obviously we can have even more very naughty fun together so long as I get my fill lol xx

    My Best Pics and Very Naughty Stories are in my Group Below:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/">www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/</a>
    Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Co ck I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return, These are my criteria......... 1. Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks 2. Full Co ck Head Showing 3. Prefer 5" or more when hard 4. You must be Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply) This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow. Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more... No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine. Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing. Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching. I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same. Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like. Contact me for any questions or details.. This is my Profile:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/">www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/</a> These are my Favourites:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/">www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/</a> ---------------------------------------------------------------- In all cases I tend to have a rather get on with it sort of attitude, obviously everyone says hello and introduces themselves but time is prescious so getting down to business asap is just what I'm looking for. We will have got to know each other before by txt email or phone so when I arrive if you can just get comfortable, spread those legs, and let me have your co ck to feed from, it will allow me to be elsewhere or even get a second helping if your up to it.... Look forward to hearing from you soon 💋 ---------------------------------------------------------------- It's been brought to my attention that some people offering there cocks for practice do NOT want to see my doing the task at hand, which Is perfectly understandable... Well other than closing your eyes there are a couple of options as it turns out... 1. Is to sit at a Table with legs spread under the table, then I will be under the table doing my training... Uncomfortable but I don't mind if it helps. 2. If you get on all fours with legs apart I can slide on my back behind you, lower you co ck down untill I can train like this.. this is the Reverse 69.... Hope this helps xx 💋 If you are a CD anyway and fit the above criteria then obviously we can have even more very naughty fun together so long as I get my fill lol xx My Best Pics and Very Naughty Stories are in my Group Below:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/">www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/</a>
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  • Black lace skirt and yellow and black petticoats and dji action 6 and wireless mic x
    #laceskirt #petticoats #stockings #suspenders #highheels
    Black lace skirt and yellow and black petticoats and dji action 6 and wireless mic x #laceskirt #petticoats #stockings #suspenders #highheels
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  • At 65, I've spent decades as a transvestite sissy crossdresser, keeping my feminine side tucked away like a guilty secret for most of my life. Skirts, stockings, heels, and lacy things brought me a private thrill and a soft kind of peace, but they also came with shame and isolation. Then volunteering stepped in first in drab male clothes at a local charity shop and quietly cracked the door open to something more. Over time, the idea of exploring crossdressing while volunteering became a gentle, thrilling possibility that blended my two worlds: giving back to the community while letting my sissy self breathe a little in public. Crossdressing and volunteering intersect in beautiful, sometimes nerve wracking ways. Many of us in the crossdressing community already love charity shops and thrift stores they're treasure troves for affordable feminine clothes, vintage dresses, silky blouses, and heels that fit just right without breaking the bank. Shopping there "en drab" (in male presentation) is common and relatively low-pressure; staff rarely bat an eye at a man browsing the women's section, especially if you're polite and purposeful. But taking the next step volunteering while presenting as your feminine self feels like leveling up. It turns the shop into a stage where you can practice being seen, contribute meaningfully, and feel the quiet joy of service wrapped in the fabric that makes you feel most alive. Sorting donations, steaming garments, arranging displays tasks that already feel creative and domestic become even more satisfying when you're doing them in a skirt or blouse that matches the very items on the rails. There's a special little rush when you handle a pretty dress that might have been perfect for your own collection, knowing it's going to help someone else while you get to embody your softer side in a purposeful setting. For many of us older sissies, volunteering offers a gentle way to ease into public expression without the intensity of a full "night out." Charity shops tend to attract kind, community minded people older volunteers, mums, young folks gaining experience, and all sorts in between. The environment is often forgiving and focused on the work rather than on you. Conversations flow naturally over pricing or styling, and you can let your feminine mannerisms show a bit more without forcing anything. It builds confidence the same way my early drab shifts did: through small interactions, teamwork, and the satisfaction of helping keep good clothes out of landfill while raising funds for worthy causes. Of course, it's not without its layers. Some days you might worry about being read, or about awkward questions, or simply about whether the team will accept you. Experiences vary some places are wonderfully inclusive, especially those with ties to causes or progressive areas, while others might feel more traditional. Starting small helps: perhaps a short shift, a subtle feminine touch, nail polish, a unisex but feminine top, or even volunteering at events or organizations where crossdressing is more normalized. I've heard of crossdressers volunteering at community fundraisers, helping at pride related drives, or even assisting in thrift based events where dressing up adds to the fun and visibility. The mental health side is profound. Volunteering already combats loneliness, builds purpose, teaches skills, and creates real connections benefits that feel amplified when you're expressing your authentic self. For a sissy crossdresser like me, it bridges the gap between private indulgence and public living. That hidden part of me stops feeling like a shameful secret and starts feeling like a valid contribution to the world. The social aspect eases isolation in a way therapy alone never quite could; you're valued for your helpfulness, your eye for display, your patience with customers. And yes, there's that extra layer of thrill spotting a gorgeous bargain while wearing something pretty yourself, or feeling the swish of a skirt as you move between racks. Looking back, exploring crossdressing in volunteering has been one of the most rewarding paths for many of us. It doesn't demand you "come out" dramatically; it lets you integrate gradually, at your own pace. Some stay fully en femme for shifts and find warm acceptance. Others mix presentations or keep it subtle. Either way, it fosters growth: more confidence, better social skills, a deeper sense of purpose, and often a surprising amount of quiet support from people who simply see a kind volunteer doing good work. If you're a fellow crossdresser reading this whether you're 25 or 75 consider it. Start by shopping at charity shops to build familiarity, then explore volunteering opportunities. Talk to managers openly if it feels right; many are pragmatic and welcoming when you frame it as wanting to contribute.
    At 65, I've spent decades as a transvestite sissy crossdresser, keeping my feminine side tucked away like a guilty secret for most of my life. Skirts, stockings, heels, and lacy things brought me a private thrill and a soft kind of peace, but they also came with shame and isolation. Then volunteering stepped in first in drab male clothes at a local charity shop and quietly cracked the door open to something more. Over time, the idea of exploring crossdressing while volunteering became a gentle, thrilling possibility that blended my two worlds: giving back to the community while letting my sissy self breathe a little in public. Crossdressing and volunteering intersect in beautiful, sometimes nerve wracking ways. Many of us in the crossdressing community already love charity shops and thrift stores they're treasure troves for affordable feminine clothes, vintage dresses, silky blouses, and heels that fit just right without breaking the bank. Shopping there "en drab" (in male presentation) is common and relatively low-pressure; staff rarely bat an eye at a man browsing the women's section, especially if you're polite and purposeful. But taking the next step volunteering while presenting as your feminine self feels like leveling up. It turns the shop into a stage where you can practice being seen, contribute meaningfully, and feel the quiet joy of service wrapped in the fabric that makes you feel most alive. Sorting donations, steaming garments, arranging displays tasks that already feel creative and domestic become even more satisfying when you're doing them in a skirt or blouse that matches the very items on the rails. There's a special little rush when you handle a pretty dress that might have been perfect for your own collection, knowing it's going to help someone else while you get to embody your softer side in a purposeful setting. For many of us older sissies, volunteering offers a gentle way to ease into public expression without the intensity of a full "night out." Charity shops tend to attract kind, community minded people older volunteers, mums, young folks gaining experience, and all sorts in between. The environment is often forgiving and focused on the work rather than on you. Conversations flow naturally over pricing or styling, and you can let your feminine mannerisms show a bit more without forcing anything. It builds confidence the same way my early drab shifts did: through small interactions, teamwork, and the satisfaction of helping keep good clothes out of landfill while raising funds for worthy causes. Of course, it's not without its layers. Some days you might worry about being read, or about awkward questions, or simply about whether the team will accept you. Experiences vary some places are wonderfully inclusive, especially those with ties to causes or progressive areas, while others might feel more traditional. Starting small helps: perhaps a short shift, a subtle feminine touch, nail polish, a unisex but feminine top, or even volunteering at events or organizations where crossdressing is more normalized. I've heard of crossdressers volunteering at community fundraisers, helping at pride related drives, or even assisting in thrift based events where dressing up adds to the fun and visibility. The mental health side is profound. Volunteering already combats loneliness, builds purpose, teaches skills, and creates real connections benefits that feel amplified when you're expressing your authentic self. For a sissy crossdresser like me, it bridges the gap between private indulgence and public living. That hidden part of me stops feeling like a shameful secret and starts feeling like a valid contribution to the world. The social aspect eases isolation in a way therapy alone never quite could; you're valued for your helpfulness, your eye for display, your patience with customers. And yes, there's that extra layer of thrill spotting a gorgeous bargain while wearing something pretty yourself, or feeling the swish of a skirt as you move between racks. Looking back, exploring crossdressing in volunteering has been one of the most rewarding paths for many of us. It doesn't demand you "come out" dramatically; it lets you integrate gradually, at your own pace. Some stay fully en femme for shifts and find warm acceptance. Others mix presentations or keep it subtle. Either way, it fosters growth: more confidence, better social skills, a deeper sense of purpose, and often a surprising amount of quiet support from people who simply see a kind volunteer doing good work. If you're a fellow crossdresser reading this whether you're 25 or 75 consider it. Start by shopping at charity shops to build familiarity, then explore volunteering opportunities. Talk to managers openly if it feels right; many are pragmatic and welcoming when you frame it as wanting to contribute.
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  • I was sitting on the sofa, gently running my fingers over my collection of smooth satin scarves, enjoying their soft shimmer in the light. Suddenly, you burst into the living room.
    "You're late today," I said with a teasing smile. "Did untying those scarves take so long? Oh, but you look so elegant again."
    You were just in time. I had been searching for the perfect headscarf to match the outfit I planned to wear tomorrow my birthday. You were invited too, of course.
    That’s when I noticed it your skirt was sticking up noticeably. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly.
    "Take one of the satin scarves," I instructed, my voice warm yet firm. "Wrap it around yourself and start pleasuring right away."
    I smiled as you obeyed. "I understand… I’m crazy about scarves today too. I’ve even spread some out all over the sofa!"
    While you began, I picked up different satin headscarves, trying them on one after another and draping a few luxuriously over my legs, letting the silky fabric glide across my skin.
    Finally, it was your turn. "Oh, how beautifully you’re dressed today," I murmured appreciatively. "All in satin… yes, it really suits you."
    I leaned forward, eyes sparkling. "Come here. I have five new satin scarves for you. I’ll show them to you now. They’re gorgeous perfect for spring!"
    I held them up one by one, letting you admire the rich colors and glossy sheen. "I’ll show you more satin scarves later, but first…"
    My tone shifted into that familiar commanding sweetness. "Then you’ll get your daily task from me: Go to your room now and put on one of the new satin scarves. Then get the dildo and pleasure your hole nicely, playing with yourself at the same time, until you have an orgasm!"
    Later, I slowly tied a silk scarf tightly around my own neck, watching your reaction closely. I saw it immediately your panties grew much tighter. I smiled knowingly. "Yes, I know that excites you."
    "You can sniff the silk scarf that I gave you," I continued softly, "and you can start edging with a vibrator. But you stay in your panties today."
    I settled back comfortably. "Today I’m taking time for you."
    I reflected quietly on the last few years, thinking about how it all started between us. We sat down together on the sofa. I wanted you near me.
    "Look," I said, holding up the old panties I had kept. "I’ve picked out the old ones… see how big they were?" I laughed lightly. "Huge, compared to the last few years when you were only allowed to wear tight panties."
    I placed a hand gently on your thigh, my voice soft but full of control. "In the meantime, you’ve become so subservient to me… even helpless. And even though I don’t always let you pleasure yourself fully… you’re mine now."
    I smiled, pulling you a little closer. "Aren’t you?"
    I was sitting on the sofa, gently running my fingers over my collection of smooth satin scarves, enjoying their soft shimmer in the light. Suddenly, you burst into the living room. "You're late today," I said with a teasing smile. "Did untying those scarves take so long? Oh, but you look so elegant again." You were just in time. I had been searching for the perfect headscarf to match the outfit I planned to wear tomorrow my birthday. You were invited too, of course. That’s when I noticed it your skirt was sticking up noticeably. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly. "Take one of the satin scarves," I instructed, my voice warm yet firm. "Wrap it around yourself and start pleasuring right away." I smiled as you obeyed. "I understand… I’m crazy about scarves today too. I’ve even spread some out all over the sofa!" While you began, I picked up different satin headscarves, trying them on one after another and draping a few luxuriously over my legs, letting the silky fabric glide across my skin. Finally, it was your turn. "Oh, how beautifully you’re dressed today," I murmured appreciatively. "All in satin… yes, it really suits you." I leaned forward, eyes sparkling. "Come here. I have five new satin scarves for you. I’ll show them to you now. They’re gorgeous perfect for spring!" I held them up one by one, letting you admire the rich colors and glossy sheen. "I’ll show you more satin scarves later, but first…" My tone shifted into that familiar commanding sweetness. "Then you’ll get your daily task from me: Go to your room now and put on one of the new satin scarves. Then get the dildo and pleasure your hole nicely, playing with yourself at the same time, until you have an orgasm!" Later, I slowly tied a silk scarf tightly around my own neck, watching your reaction closely. I saw it immediately your panties grew much tighter. I smiled knowingly. "Yes, I know that excites you." "You can sniff the silk scarf that I gave you," I continued softly, "and you can start edging with a vibrator. But you stay in your panties today." I settled back comfortably. "Today I’m taking time for you." I reflected quietly on the last few years, thinking about how it all started between us. We sat down together on the sofa. I wanted you near me. "Look," I said, holding up the old panties I had kept. "I’ve picked out the old ones… see how big they were?" I laughed lightly. "Huge, compared to the last few years when you were only allowed to wear tight panties." I placed a hand gently on your thigh, my voice soft but full of control. "In the meantime, you’ve become so subservient to me… even helpless. And even though I don’t always let you pleasure yourself fully… you’re mine now." I smiled, pulling you a little closer. "Aren’t you?"
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  • Dream poll...

    Kate was always strange.
    She was designing her outfits dreaming of the magazine of the particular fashion for men... Ellegant invisibility...

    And what a sudden reaction to her old photo...

    I am intrigued.
    What would happen if Kate will come...

    Should she try?
    Or it is just formal politeness to every application...
    Dream poll... Kate was always strange. She was designing her outfits dreaming of the magazine of the particular fashion for men... Ellegant invisibility... And what a sudden reaction to her old photo... I am intrigued. What would happen if Kate will come... Should she try? Or it is just formal politeness to every application...
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  • Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ********

    I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish

    Text me on zangi 6869055896
    if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
    Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ******** I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish Text me on zangi 6869055896 if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
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  • thanks for all the nice reactions xx
    thanks for all the nice reactions xx
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  • Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Co ck

    I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return,

    These are my criteria.........
    1. Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks
    2. Full Co ck Head Showing
    3. Prefer 5" or more when hard
    4. You must be Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply)

    This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow.
    Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more...
    No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine.
    Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing.
    Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching.
    I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same.
    Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like.

    Contact me for any questions or details..

    This is my Profile:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/">www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/</a>

    These are my Favourites:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/">www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/</a>

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    In all cases I tend to have a rather get on with it sort of attitude, obviously everyone says hello and introduces themselves but time is prescious so getting down to business asap is just what I'm looking for. We will have got to know each other before by txt email or phone so when I arrive if you can just get comfortable, spread those legs, and let me have your co ck to feed from, it will allow me to be elsewhere or even get a second helping if your up to it....
    Look forward to hearing from you soon

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    It's been brought to my attention that some people offering there cocks for practice do NOT want to see my doing the task at hand, which Is perfectly understandable... Well other than closing your eyes there are a couple of options as it turns out...
    1. Is to sit at a Table with legs spread under the table, then I will be under the table doing my training... Uncomfortable but I don't mind if it helps.
    2. If you get on all fours with legs apart I can slide on my back behind you, lower you co ck down untill I can train like this.. this is the Reverse 69....
    Hope this helps xx

    If you are a CD anyway and fit the above criteria then obviously we can have even more very naughty fun together so long as I get my fill lol xx

    My Best Pics and Very Naughty Stories are in my Group Below:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/">www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/</a>
    Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Co ck I'm looking for Co ck within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return, These are my criteria......... 1. Smooth Shaven Co ck and Sacks 2. Full Co ck Head Showing 3. Prefer 5" or more when hard 4. You must be Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply) This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking co ck as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow. Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more... No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine. Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing. Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching. I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same. Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like. Contact me for any questions or details.. This is my Profile:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/">www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/</a> These are my Favourites:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/">www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/</a> ---------------------------------------------------------------- In all cases I tend to have a rather get on with it sort of attitude, obviously everyone says hello and introduces themselves but time is prescious so getting down to business asap is just what I'm looking for. We will have got to know each other before by txt email or phone so when I arrive if you can just get comfortable, spread those legs, and let me have your co ck to feed from, it will allow me to be elsewhere or even get a second helping if your up to it.... Look forward to hearing from you soon 💋 ---------------------------------------------------------------- It's been brought to my attention that some people offering there cocks for practice do NOT want to see my doing the task at hand, which Is perfectly understandable... Well other than closing your eyes there are a couple of options as it turns out... 1. Is to sit at a Table with legs spread under the table, then I will be under the table doing my training... Uncomfortable but I don't mind if it helps. 2. If you get on all fours with legs apart I can slide on my back behind you, lower you co ck down untill I can train like this.. this is the Reverse 69.... Hope this helps xx 💋 If you are a CD anyway and fit the above criteria then obviously we can have even more very naughty fun together so long as I get my fill lol xx My Best Pics and Very Naughty Stories are in my Group Below:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/">www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/</a>
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  • Good morning lovelies, and happy Inclusive Women's Day - the Feminism-Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes can go stick it (and i'm looking at you, Jerker Owling...)
    Good morning lovelies, and happy Inclusive Women's Day - the Feminism-Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes can go stick it (and i'm looking at you, Jerker Owling...)
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  • England’s chief medical officer has said he believes “far too many people” who are not experts in medicine and science “have thrown far too many arguments” into the debate around a puberty blocker trial for children.

    So... listening mostly to Feminism-Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes* isn't exactly scientific, then?

    *I can't for the life of me think of a nice, snappy acronym, anyone got any ideas?
    England’s chief medical officer has said he believes “far too many people” who are not experts in medicine and science “have thrown far too many arguments” into the debate around a puberty blocker trial for children. So... listening mostly to Feminism-Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes* isn't exactly scientific, then? *I can't for the life of me think of a nice, snappy acronym, anyone got any ideas?
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  • My new adventure camrea ! Could get some up petticoat action hehe x
    My new adventure camrea ! Could get some up petticoat action hehe 🤭🤭 x
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  • My GoPro setup ! For petticoat action hehe x
    #petticoat
    My GoPro setup ! For petticoat action hehe 🥰 x #petticoat
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  • Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ********

    I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish

    Text me on zangi 6869055896
    if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
    Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ******** I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish Text me on zangi 6869055896 if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
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  • Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ********

    I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish

    Text me on zangi 6869055896
    if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
    Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ******** I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish Text me on zangi 6869055896 if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
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  • Isn't it lovely to have that smug satisfaction when a scammer block you haha. If ya can't take the heat, don't come in the kitchen
    Isn't it lovely to have that smug satisfaction when a scammer block you haha. If ya can't take the heat, don't come in the kitchen 😈
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  • Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ********

    I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish

    Text me on zangi 6869055896
    if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
    Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ******** I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish Text me on zangi 6869055896 if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
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  • Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ********

    I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish

    Text me on zangi 6869055896
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    Whether you are a beginner or an experienced player, your fetish and BDSM desires will be teased, taunted and elevated until you are aching for release. Finally, you are left gasping and fulfilled, shivering with satisfaction at the best adult fantasy you will ever experience with the ******** I understand that for many submissives, your slavery is therapeutic. In your servitude to Me, you will feel release from the constraints of your vanilla lifestyle. As your ********, I am both your trainer and your guide, as we delve together further into the dark arts of BDSM, Kink and Fetish Text me on zangi 6869055896 if you're ready to purchase your certificate form
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  • Hope you've all had a nice weekend and had lots of action
    Hope you've all had a nice weekend and had lots of action 😘😈🍑🍆💦🔥💄📸
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  • #SatisFACTion is this #simple
    #SatisFACTion is this #simple
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  • I met a really wonderful man last night We met at one of my favorite places in San Diego’s Hillcrest neighborhood—Baja Betty’s. It’s a spot I go to often and one of the few places where I feel completely safe being my true self as a trans woman, where I can relax, let my hair down, and just be me.

    We started talking and somehow time just disappeared. The conversation flowed so easily, and we kept discovering how much we had in common. He’s older than me—I’m 47 and he’s 76—and honestly, it feels kind of perfect. I don’t have “daddy issues,” but I am very drawn to older men. I love the calm confidence, the grounded, paternal energy, and the way they make me feel cared for and protected.

    What makes it even more special is how beautifully complementary we are. In public, he’s very masculine—confident, composed, and steady. In private, he’s a crossdresser, which he shared with openness and trust. That balance, that shared understanding of gender expression and vulnerability, made me feel seen in a way that’s rare.

    I’m trying not to get ahead of myself—we did just meet—but there was definitely a spark A sense of comfort, attraction, and mutual understanding that felt natural and exciting. We just fit. I’m really hoping this sweet beginning turns into something meaningful.

    http://chrissyinsd.hotviber.com/

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    I met a really wonderful man last night 💖 We met at one of my favorite places in San Diego’s Hillcrest neighborhood—Baja Betty’s. It’s a spot I go to often and one of the few places where I feel completely safe being my true self as a trans woman, where I can relax, let my hair down, and just be me. We started talking and somehow time just disappeared. The conversation flowed so easily, and we kept discovering how much we had in common. He’s older than me—I’m 47 and he’s 76—and honestly, it feels kind of perfect. I don’t have “daddy issues,” but I am very drawn to older men. I love the calm confidence, the grounded, paternal energy, and the way they make me feel cared for and protected. What makes it even more special is how beautifully complementary we are. In public, he’s very masculine—confident, composed, and steady. In private, he’s a crossdresser, which he shared with openness and trust. That balance, that shared understanding of gender expression and vulnerability, made me feel seen in a way that’s rare. I’m trying not to get ahead of myself—we did just meet—but there was definitely a spark ✨ A sense of comfort, attraction, and mutual understanding that felt natural and exciting. We just fit. I’m really hoping this sweet beginning turns into something meaningful. 💋 http://chrissyinsd.hotviber.com/ #sissy #sissyboy #sissies #sissyboys #sissygirl #sissygirls #femboy #femboys #femman #gurl #crossdresser #crossdressers #crossdressing #tgirl #shemale #shemalechrissy #sissychrissyinsandiego #chrissyinsd #trans #transgirl #transwoman #transfemale #transgender #lgbt #queer #gay #dancing #twerking #pantyboy #meninpanties #dress #menindresses #gaydate #gayboyfriend #loveislove
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  • Why Do We Like Butts?

    This question stuck with me after seeing a dumb Facebook meme. A guy tells a woman she has a great ass. She replies sarcastically: “Thank you! I keep poop in it.”

    Crude—but true.

    We defecate through our butts. And yet, across cultures, centuries, genders, and sexual orientations, humans are deeply attracted to them. Straight, gay, bi, queer. Cis, trans, gender-nonconforming. People admire them, desire them, sculpt them, and eroticize them relentlessly.

    So why?

    The answer isn’t about function. Attraction doesn’t work that way. It’s about signal, shape, and meaning.

    From a biological and evolutionary standpoint, there is broad scientific consensus that humans are drawn to certain body shapes because they act as visual cues of health and fertility. Research in evolutionary psychology shows that hip width, fat distribution, and lumbar curvature correlate with reproductive health. A pronounced lower-back curve visually emphasizes the buttocks, and a favorable waist-to-hip ratio is widely perceived as attractive across cultures.

    The brain isn’t thinking about anatomy or waste. Just as people don’t look at mouths and think about digestion, attraction filters out function and locks onto form.

    That resonates with me. I’m attracted to butts—the curve, the fullness, the way the lower back opens into flesh. It’s immediate and bodily. I’m especially drawn to very feminine women and their hips and butts. Their embodiment feels like a distilled expression of femininity—grounded, confident, complete. There’s desire there, but also admiration and longing.

    At the same time, I’m keenly aware that men are attracted to my ass.

    I feel it in their gaze, in how attention lingers. That awareness shapes how I inhabit my body. As Michel Foucault argues, bodies are never neutral—they are read, eroticized, and positioned within systems of power (Foucault, The History of Sexuality). When my body is desired for a part culturally coded as feminine, I’m not just being wanted—I’m being located as receptive.

    This is where gender theory becomes personal.

    I’m a sissy crossdresser. I don’t yet know if I’m trans, and I’ve stopped treating that uncertainty as a problem. What I do know is that my gender has taken shape through repetition, recognition, and power. Judith Butler argues that gender is constituted through repeated acts that solidify into identity over time (Butler, Gender Trouble). When I soften my posture, present femininely, and allow myself to be read in certain ways, I’m not pretending. I’m performing gender into being.

    My attraction to men is structured around masculinity, dominance, and control. I’m drawn to men grounded in their power. Submission, for me, isn’t weakness—it’s orientation. Yielding clarifies my femininity rather than erasing it.

    This connects to why attraction to butts often overlaps with interest in anal sexuality. For some, anal sex symbolizes dominance, possession, or control—access to a guarded, vulnerable space. For others, it represents intimacy, trust, and bonding. For many, it’s a mix of both. In heterosexual contexts, it allows penetration without pregnancy; in male-male contexts, it is the primary site through which penetration and possession are symbolically enacted. In every case, the butt becomes a site of power, vulnerability, and meaning.

    From an embodiment perspective, this makes sense. Maurice Merleau-Ponty argued that the body is not an object we possess but the medium through which we experience the world (Phenomenology of Perception). My body learns who it is by responding—by yielding, being read, and being desired.

    So yes—we poop through our butts. That’s true.

    But humans have always been capable of holding multiple truths at once. The same body part can be mundane and symbolic, functional and erotic. What matters isn’t what the body does, but what it means when another human desires it—and how that desire shapes who we become.


    What are your thoughts??
    -Chrissy

    https://chrissyinsd.blogspot.com/

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    Why Do We Like Butts? This question stuck with me after seeing a dumb Facebook meme. A guy tells a woman she has a great ass. She replies sarcastically: “Thank you! I keep poop in it.” Crude—but true. We defecate through our butts. And yet, across cultures, centuries, genders, and sexual orientations, humans are deeply attracted to them. Straight, gay, bi, queer. Cis, trans, gender-nonconforming. People admire them, desire them, sculpt them, and eroticize them relentlessly. So why? The answer isn’t about function. Attraction doesn’t work that way. It’s about signal, shape, and meaning. From a biological and evolutionary standpoint, there is broad scientific consensus that humans are drawn to certain body shapes because they act as visual cues of health and fertility. Research in evolutionary psychology shows that hip width, fat distribution, and lumbar curvature correlate with reproductive health. A pronounced lower-back curve visually emphasizes the buttocks, and a favorable waist-to-hip ratio is widely perceived as attractive across cultures. The brain isn’t thinking about anatomy or waste. Just as people don’t look at mouths and think about digestion, attraction filters out function and locks onto form. That resonates with me. I’m attracted to butts—the curve, the fullness, the way the lower back opens into flesh. It’s immediate and bodily. I’m especially drawn to very feminine women and their hips and butts. Their embodiment feels like a distilled expression of femininity—grounded, confident, complete. There’s desire there, but also admiration and longing. At the same time, I’m keenly aware that men are attracted to my ass. I feel it in their gaze, in how attention lingers. That awareness shapes how I inhabit my body. As Michel Foucault argues, bodies are never neutral—they are read, eroticized, and positioned within systems of power (Foucault, The History of Sexuality). When my body is desired for a part culturally coded as feminine, I’m not just being wanted—I’m being located as receptive. This is where gender theory becomes personal. I’m a sissy crossdresser. I don’t yet know if I’m trans, and I’ve stopped treating that uncertainty as a problem. What I do know is that my gender has taken shape through repetition, recognition, and power. Judith Butler argues that gender is constituted through repeated acts that solidify into identity over time (Butler, Gender Trouble). When I soften my posture, present femininely, and allow myself to be read in certain ways, I’m not pretending. I’m performing gender into being. My attraction to men is structured around masculinity, dominance, and control. I’m drawn to men grounded in their power. Submission, for me, isn’t weakness—it’s orientation. Yielding clarifies my femininity rather than erasing it. This connects to why attraction to butts often overlaps with interest in anal sexuality. For some, anal sex symbolizes dominance, possession, or control—access to a guarded, vulnerable space. For others, it represents intimacy, trust, and bonding. For many, it’s a mix of both. In heterosexual contexts, it allows penetration without pregnancy; in male-male contexts, it is the primary site through which penetration and possession are symbolically enacted. In every case, the butt becomes a site of power, vulnerability, and meaning. From an embodiment perspective, this makes sense. Maurice Merleau-Ponty argued that the body is not an object we possess but the medium through which we experience the world (Phenomenology of Perception). My body learns who it is by responding—by yielding, being read, and being desired. So yes—we poop through our butts. That’s true. But humans have always been capable of holding multiple truths at once. The same body part can be mundane and symbolic, functional and erotic. What matters isn’t what the body does, but what it means when another human desires it—and how that desire shapes who we become. What are your thoughts?? -Chrissy https://chrissyinsd.blogspot.com/ #crossdresser #sissy #sissyboy #crossdressers #sissies #shemale #ladyboy #femboy #femman #femboys #crossdressing #gurl #trans #transgirl #transwoman #transgender #tgirl #gay #lgbtq #nsfw #adultsonly #adultcontent #sissy #crossdresser #crossdressing #femboy #sissyboy #sissygirl #trans #transgender #shemale #transgirl #transwoman #transfemale #tgirl #model #modeling #gay #bi #lgbtq #queer #genderfluid #pantymodel #panty #panties #meninpanties #ladyboy
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  • I'm looking for a local friend for very naughty and very Regular fun and everything you read below, if your a CD then that's even better, if your not a CD but want some fun just keep reading...
    I don't hide the fact that I enjoy a nice **** in Stockings so if you want to be part of this enjoyment then here goes.

    A member asked me why, if you enjoy cocks so much, why not just offer to suck any....
    I said well that's not the point, I actually don't ask that much.. A smooth shaven **** with full head showing. That's my personal preference, one because it is much cleaner, ( just chat with any Nurse) and two I cannot stand Hairs....
    The only Boundary I'm pushing is asking those interested to wear Tights, Stockings or Holdups.... Not exactly the end of the world is it..... My idea here is two fold, one I just love Lingerie and Smooth Cocks, it really really gets me going and Two, it could very well not be the last time there wear some, as I and all CDs know it can get very addictive... To be honest I think I may have an issue as I love smooth **** in Stockings probably too much....
    I wonder if there is a Cocks Anonymous
    I would travel more to meet other people offering there help with my Training but time is an issue when married and working, I often have a short window of opportunity of a couple of hours, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, on the occasional day off I may get longer so ask if you want to.. most of my availability is between 2:30 and 4:30 at the latest... Hence why travelling is an issue...
    So if anyone can accommodate this then let me know, if I find a trustworthy person, they can come to my house but even then we would have to be careful.. or maybe I would end up servicing you in the workshop/shed
    The other question I get is Why do you have to Swallow... Well again, I love it and no way am I cleaning that mess up
    It's much easier just swallowing it all and job done, no dirty lingerie either.... Of course if you want my **** too then the same rule will apply to you... Don't forget lol xx
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    My original Details..........

    Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Training

    I'm looking for Training Help within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return (Totally Free)

    These are my criteria..

    Smooth Shaven **** and Sacks

    Full **** Head Showing

    Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply)

    This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow.
    Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more...
    No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine.
    Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing.
    Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching.

    I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and Pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same.
    Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like.
    Contact me for any questions or details..

    This is my Profile:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/">www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/</a>

    These are my Favourites:-
    <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/">www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/</a>

    My Best Pics and Very Naughty Stories are in my Group Below:-

    <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/">www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/</a>

    If you are a CD and want even more fun or are not a CD and just want to Feed from me then just please ask, I'm always available if needed... I just forgot to mention this option here xx


    One Member that has helped me with my Mouth Training (as they put it) asked if there were anything else they could do to help even more...

    I said actually there is if you feel up to it...

    What I need you to do is just before you Cum, you need to get up and Make me swallow your entire load, not letting me move until every drop has gone....Now there are a number of ways you can do this...

    You can hold my head with both hands and head **** me untill you cum or

    You can make me lean with my head on the Wall so I'm pinned and do the same or

    If you have a high bed or Sofa Edge or even on the Sofa, use the same method to pin me down.....

    Alternatively get on top in the 69 position and fill me up that way....

    I'm sure there are many more ways but this would really help with my training if you could please....

    I'm looking for a local friend for very naughty and very Regular fun and everything you read below, if your a CD then that's even better, if your not a CD but want some fun just keep reading... I don't hide the fact that I enjoy a nice cock in Stockings so if you want to be part of this enjoyment then here goes. A member asked me why, if you enjoy cocks so much, why not just offer to suck any.... I said well that's not the point, I actually don't ask that much.. A smooth shaven cock with full head showing. That's my personal preference, one because it is much cleaner, ( just chat with any Nurse) and two I cannot stand Hairs.... The only Boundary I'm pushing is asking those interested to wear Tights, Stockings or Holdups.... Not exactly the end of the world is it..... My idea here is two fold, one I just love Lingerie and Smooth Cocks, it really really gets me going and Two, it could very well not be the last time there wear some, as I and all CDs know it can get very addictive... To be honest I think I may have an issue as I love smooth cock in Stockings probably too much.... I wonder if there is a Cocks Anonymous 😂 😂 I would travel more to meet other people offering there help with my Training but time is an issue when married and working, I often have a short window of opportunity of a couple of hours, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, on the occasional day off I may get longer so ask if you want to.. most of my availability is between 2:30 and 4:30 at the latest... Hence why travelling is an issue... So if anyone can accommodate this then let me know, if I find a trustworthy person, they can come to my house but even then we would have to be careful.. or maybe I would end up servicing you in the workshop/shed 😂 😂 The other question I get is Why do you have to Swallow... Well again, I love it and no way am I cleaning that mess up 😂 😂 It's much easier just swallowing it all and job done, no dirty lingerie either.... Of course if you want my cock too then the same rule will apply to you... Don't forget lol xx _________________________________ My original Details.......... Derby UK Lingerie CD Looking for Training I'm looking for Training Help within 20 minutes of Spondon or Ilkeston for ongoing training purposes, I don't expect anything in return (Totally Free) These are my criteria.. Smooth Shaven Cock and Sacks Full Cock Head Showing Willing to wear Tights or Holdups/Stockings ( Which I could supply) This is for training only, I don't expect you to do anything else at all, ideally you can sit on the edge of the sofa or arm chair with your legs spread, you can read a book or play on your phone or watch TV.... I'm there to gain as much experience at sucking as possible, I will be trying different techniques and will leave No Mess at all... So long as you are happy for me to Swallow. Hopefully this will be at least 3 times a week hopefully more... No one needs to know anything so if your married or with someone then that's fine. Feedback on how I'm doing and how I can improve my extraction would be even better as the faster I get my fill the better I'm doing. Age and looks are unimportant so long as it's legal, you should be fit and healthy and free from anything catching. I expect you to be Very Clean, Tidy, Discreet and Pleasant and Trustworthy... What I do will go no further and I expect the same. Please check out my Profile and Pics and my Favourites to see what I'm like and what I like. Contact me for any questions or details.. This is my Profile:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/">www.flickr.com/people/11512300@N05/</a> These are my Favourites:- <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/">www.flickr.com/photos/11512300@N05/favorites/</a> My Best Pics and Very Naughty Stories are in my Group Below:- <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/">www.flickr.com/groups/14871084@N25/</a> If you are a CD and want even more fun or are not a CD and just want to Feed from me then just please ask, I'm always available if needed... I just forgot to mention this option here xx One Member that has helped me with my Mouth Training (as they put it) asked if there were anything else they could do to help even more... I said actually there is if you feel up to it... What I need you to do is just before you Cum, you need to get up and Make me swallow your entire load, not letting me move until every drop has gone....Now there are a number of ways you can do this... You can hold my head with both hands and head Fuck me untill you cum or You can make me lean with my head on the Wall so I'm pinned and do the same or If you have a high bed or Sofa Edge or even on the Sofa, use the same method to pin me down..... Alternatively get on top in the 69 position and fill me up that way.... I'm sure there are many more ways but this would really help with my training if you could please....
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