What makes you feel like your real self?

For some people it’s wearing what they love. For others it’s just being with people who get them.

I’d love to know what helps you feel free to be you.

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One time, someone told me they wished they could dress how they feel inside. That stuck with me.

It made me think about how many people hide a part of themselves every day, just to feel safe or accepted. That’s one big reason why I write these stories — to remind anyone out there that they’re not alone.

You deserve to be seen for who you really are.
Have you ever felt like this too?

Photo by Alexander Grey on Unsplash

“When you show your true colors, you find your true people.”

I love this quote because it’s true - every time someone is real, they help someone else be real too.

What does this mean to you?

I wrote this book because I’ve seen how many people feel they have to hide parts of who they are — just to feel safe. I believe everyone deserves to be seen and accepted for who they truly are, no matter what.

This story is for anyone who’s ever felt alone, different, or afraid to show their true self. I hope it helps you feel less alone and more proud of your journey.

If you’d like to read it, you can get it here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBL42W76
I’d love to hear what you think. Let’s keep sharing our voices and stories.

Damn I need a good deep ****,wish someone was here so they could **** me

They are very sweaty

There are some strange folks cropping up - i think that last PM is from someone who's paid for the "how to pick up girls with NLP" and is trying (totally unsuccessfully) to "neg" me into submission - it's always a clue to how poor one's interpersonal skills are and how lacking one's character of any interesting qualities when you have to attempt to learn the arts of Seduction from some abusive player.
What a "Mystery" they must be. I'm sure their mum at least tries to love them.

I always need a big one on my face, that's why they call me needy!

The use of AI filters, or excessive use seems to have become a polarising subject.
So here is my tuppence worth......
I dress in women's clothes because I think women are the sexiest creatures ever, (except maybe for some big cats ) and when I'm dressed as a woman it makes me feel sexy, even though I know to most people I just look like a bloke in drag.

My face, especially my jawline is quite masculine (jealous of the men that have a more feminine shape face) and my make up and photography skills are not nearly as good as I would like them to be and I'm lazy.

I'll be honest I have used AI & photo editing software to smoothen my acne scarred skin, remove blemishes, stubble and unwanted background items, as well as adding filters to improve the lighting & photo quality.

I guess, ultimately using this software makes some crossdressers feel good about who they are, they can see themselves as they would like to look and if they are not using these tools to trick or cause harm to others, then who are we to judge....the world needs more kindness, not less.....live & let live

On that note, I decided to use AI software to create a more convincing female version of me.....would the real Slim Shady please stand up!
Can you tell which photo is the 'real' me?

If someone blocks you on this site, obviously you cant see their messages or profile anymore. But can they also not see any of your profile or posts anymore ?

Geez the amount of blocking I had to do today, and my first report though should be more. being a bit risqué with the clothes is one thing but just having everything on show is not what its about. If you want to do that stuff then go on other sites. Then the scammers! why they all seem to be 'women dominatrix' types? And then excessive use of AI is getting on my t*ts. I'm no looker but I try my best. Rant over!

Bought another pair of flared jeans....soft & stretchy denim....they feel sooooo good on, love wearing them

Feels amazing to have boobs again the girls are pushed up far as they can be love it

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How much did you pay for your wigs and were they good quality?

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Well.. I woke up hard today.. and I do mean solid as a rock.. and it's quite insistent. Not sure what I dreamed about last night, but assumptions say it was epic lol.

Right now, I'm in my fave 'wetting' knickers, hold-ups and a white top with red bra underneath (shown in prev pics) and all I want.. is ****.

If I could press a button and have a few 'gifted' cd's here right now,.. one pushing into my tight ass insistently, one sucking my rock hard, veiny, sensitive **** from the front..
and one more filling my mouth with semi-hard meat.. oozing sweet precum onto my tongue and lips..
All while we share a bottle of pentyl nitrate, my toy & lingerie collection, and some weed.

All three with one job.. pleasúre me.. hit every nerve ending, every sweet spot. Take me to the limits.. fill me with cum, edge me to oblivion.

That would be my perfect day right now.

Yet.. I've never cammed.. let alone had fun with another CD.
I wouldn't say I pass, hence no headshots in my posts.. I envy those who can wear make-up and look feminine, wear a wig etc. even leave the house.. omg that would be amazing. But that's not me.. no anonymity in my small town, I know everyone, and everyone knows me.. or they think they do. So Charli remains reclusive, virginal.. and on days like this.. breathtakingly horny.

If you would like to dm me, with a detailed description of what you would do, like to do.. to aid me in the next hour or two., please do! I love hearing what some of you might do.. fave gets some pics that couldn't ever be posted here xxx

(With all due... no hairy men please.. no offence, just not my hairy) bag cd/ts/trans most welcum xxx)

I do like these pink leggings but they leave nothing to the imagination!

They sold out of the dress I wanted so I got this one instead

Craigslist is sexist. They won't let me find other sissy CD friends on there. I have not posted anything sexual. I just want to find others to go to Fantasia Fair in Provincetown Massachusetts together with. Just because I wear skirts and dresses and love penises they don't like me. I am who I am.

Had my 2 lesbian friends round sat night and they gave their approval on my new boots so didn't make a bad purchase buying them

07785 978 376
Anyone is welcome to what's app me if they want to

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Think admins on here need to look at tighting up the signup process and cleaning up some of the spam/bots particularly in the forums as they are unusable as just full of spam/bot crap.

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Who. A. Crossdress. Or. Trans girl. Withadick. Whousetobeamanandhasbecomeagirl. Who. Will. Date. Me. Onhere for. Realoffiswebsitehereoraman. Whodressuplikeawomanandwokrsinabarasagirlandwillturnmeintotheyloveandmarrymeandturnmeintogirlforreal

Also found these pink corduroy pants in the same charity shop. a
Again they are lovely to wear, soft & stretchy with flared bottoms, not as long in the leg, but the same price, so it would've been rude not to buy them

Marky got with Sharon. Sharon got Cherese. She was sharing Sharon's outlook on the topic of disease. Mikey had a facial scar and Bobby was a racist. They were all in love with dying, they were doing it in Texas. Tommy played piano, like a kid out in the rain, then he lost his leg in Dallas he was dancing with a train. They were all in love with dying. They were drinking from a fountain that was pouring like an avalanche, coming down the mountain.

Did a 3/4 hour walk tonight. First walk of the week.
Quite a few people about. And quite a lot of looks too. Thought i looked good tonight - not so sure now (good as in face looked feminine) Think it may have been because of the D cups in that tight dress - oopsy . A teenage boy and girl were walking about 150 m ahead down a street and kept turning around giggling after spotting me. (Maybe subtly giving them the finger may have been a bit childish).
Just after a car went past with a family in and they nearly fell out the windows looking at me . Then i walked past a couple and the guy was eyeing me up then looked confused. The wife wasnt happy.
Later on i walked up a pathway between houses and there were two sets of neighbours talking. Not after i walked past they werent. The silence was most amusing.

My monthly girlie night out in Nottingham is tomorrow night, I've been chatting to 3 admirers on tvchix and all 3 have said they're attending tomorrow night, that could be a bit awkward!

who is interested in dating me and marrying me that used to be a man and become a full-time woman from being a man on here or anything dragged state of America in the USA and they're looking to settle down and start a life for someone and will marry me and move in and live with me here in Kentucky

any man out there who is transforming from being a man into a woman and starting to look like a woman or has switched and become a full-time woman and will date me marry me and start a life with me here in the United States of America in the USA they must be very close to Kentucky for Ohio or West Virginia and will come to Kentucky and start a new life with me here in Kentucky as a woman and help turn me into a woman and both of us start a life together and and lovers and will marry me I will come right away and start living with me and move in with me I'm being part of my life too either at a doctor or a nurse and they must work in a hospital and is looking for someone to date them and start a life with them and be their lifetime partner Anvil marry me and start a life with me other partner and lover I'm sure they're luck with me and be part of my life okay here in Kentucky

Time to put my pink frilly silky knickers on, they make me feel so girly

is it me or are there female doms trying to befriend us out of the blue? I've had a number asking to be friends but haven't messaged or conversed in any way. They're likely AI bots chasing to take your money, or real still after your money. I don't understand why female ********** would be of any interest. I find this site difficult to understand what model its trying to be

Listen up, world, catch this brand new verse,
'Bout love that has no limits, no curse.
Doesn't matter who you are, boy to boy, girl to girl,
If a spark ignites, throw prejudice out of your world.
The heart doesn't choose by old rules they wrote,
It just beats on, giving its special light, note by note.
And if your world is colored not like the rest,
It means you're unique, truly blessed.

Let the haters hate, let them whisper behind,
Your truth is the power, always with you, you'll find.
Raise the flag of your soul high, don't be shy,
'Cause in this diversity, real life does lie!

The rainbow beat pounds in the chest, can't be stopped,
Love is love, it can't be forbidden, can't be dropped!
Two hearts in unison, whatever their gender's call,
It's pure magic, the greatest thrill of all!
So live and love, breathe deeply, be bold,
The world gets brighter from the truth you hold!

Someone will find their happiness where others didn't expect,
Build their own world, where only good laws connect.
Two hands will intertwine, two gazes find their reply,
And in this union, no doubt or sorrow will lie.
This is the path to yourself, through thorns to your stars bright,
Being honest with yourself – that's our main instinct and light.
And everyone deserves to be understood, accepted right here,
'Cause in each of us, a special song is clear.

Let the haters hate, let them whisper behind,
Your truth is the power, always with you, you'll find.
Raise the flag of your soul high, don't be shy,
'Cause in this diversity, real life does lie!

The rainbow beat pounds in the chest, can't be stopped,
Love is love, it can't be forbidden, can't be dropped!
Two hearts in unison, whatever their gender's call,
It's pure magic, the greatest thrill of all!
So live and love, breathe deeply, be bold,
The world gets brighter from the truth you hold!

'Cause we're all under one sky, by the same moon's light,
And everyone seeks warmth, understanding, love's true height.
Not walls to build, but bridges across hearts,
So the music of life plays without end, without starts.
Acceptance – that's the key that opens all doors around,
My friend, this is the truth, on solid ground.

The rainbow beat...
for everyone...
without limits...
Roxana said it - so it is...
Peace and love.

any man under who dresses like a woman wearing women clothes all the time and will date me go out with me and marry me and turn in tournament and help me to work women's clothes and stuff like they do and will sleep with me make love with me and date me on here

Ido n t bit at all are they any one who trans or transgender who will date me or crossdress or gay girls or tgirl or mtf or sissy or femboy or lady boy or girls who know any one who transgender or trans girl who used to be man and has been ing turn into a girl now and will date me and married me on here now

Patti was looking at her own pictures and thought damn you are an old lady but have pretty legs, I would hit on me . Thank all you beautiful girls for your advice and comments. I have become more confident and feminine since I started this site, I hope all you girls are wearing sexy panties because we know that they feel as good as they look

Morning everyone. Was going to write about some crossdress socialing stuff going on but I think/hope I'm jumping the gun as they say and it's early days. We shall see.
Hope everyone has a good day xxxx

Oh dear, Rodriguez has blocked me because i keep google-imaging her pics and asking aren't they all other people off Reddit r/crossdressing? Oh dear, how sad, never mind!

I'm off work now til Wednesday, just trying falsies, i think they are a bit too long, need to get shorter ones

Calling admin can anything be done about these ********** they are a nuisance

Todays outing was to Tiverton. Didnt leave till nearly 2 so had to be within an hour from home.Went in the House, castle and gardens there, then walked through the town. Was talking to the greeting lady for abouts 20 mins when i arrived being told about where to go and where to avoid because of the heels i'm wearing.Then went into the town centre -everything closed but walk around anyway knowing i was showing a lot of leg.
2 early 20 yo guys walk past, said alright mate we know your a boy dressed up. I just smiled. Then they called out 'looking good darlin"
So i looked back over my shoulder and blew them a kiss and waved. They went away happy

Morning Everyone,
Just woke up with a bit of a hangover after the works do last night. Decided to go with my new blue cubans (so comfy to walk in). Changed at work (no time for fancy makeup redo unfortunately - slapped on a bit more blusher, lippy and mascara then off to the pub). Went towards the car and one of the guys said"are you wearing heels?" Yes "oh ok "
Got to the pub and the shoes get brought up - yes they are heels and girls ones.
Later talking to the office ladies and the company owner(male) and basically told them everything about the crossdressing and sexuality, and became 'one of the girls' (as in normal female chatting/gossiping). Awesome night out - fully out now, and looking forward to proper do at the end of the month.

Got into it with a ******** today. My words to all is stay away from them - actually tried to blackmail me. I cannot believe the deceit. In my opinion they should not be allowed to be on this site. In my opinion they are not to be considered to be friends. So Sad.

What is it about hotel rooms, you open your case and there in front of you are lingerie, stockings and heels.
How on earth do they get there?

Showing off the legs and shoes. Had two ladies walking on the opposite pavement(seperate incidents) call over to say they loved the shoes. Result!