• Something warm for the day maybe find somone later to share body warmth with.
    Something warm for the day maybe find somone later to share body warmth with.
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  • That is for me to know and you to find out.xoxo
    That is for me to know and you to find out.xoxo😀
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  • Well I find it hard to make real freinds that actually want to meet have coffee and what Evers follows that could be I’m living at east coast or may be getting on which ever I still like some one who’s real x
    Well I find it hard to make real freinds that actually want to meet have coffee and what Evers follows that could be I’m living at east coast or may be getting on which ever I still like some one who’s real x
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  • "Mwah, mwah! Good Morning! How are you, dahlings?" Just got back from a hotel changeaway to recharge my sissy batteries and an attempt to manage my mourning feelings. It has been over two weeks since my Wife passed away, I'm slowly coming to terms with it and finding ways to cope with being on my own, but it's not easy. A bit of sightseeing and new company has helped. At a different time it would have been wonderful as I met a lady staying in the hotel and we got on very well, but in the circumstances I've had to put any thoughts of a romantic friendship out of my mind. We will keep in touch and if my grief recedes it might be nice to see her again.
    "Mwah, mwah! Good Morning! How are you, dahlings?" Just got back from a hotel changeaway to recharge my sissy batteries and an attempt to manage my mourning feelings. It has been over two weeks since my Wife passed away, I'm slowly coming to terms with it and finding ways to cope with being on my own, but it's not easy. A bit of sightseeing and new company has helped. At a different time it would have been wonderful as I met a lady staying in the hotel and we got on very well, but in the circumstances I've had to put any thoughts of a romantic friendship out of my mind. We will keep in touch and if my grief recedes it might be nice to see her again.
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  • All I can see on here now is advertisements saying to prove I'm 18+ with a weekly charge. If I can't find a way to get rid of these I might have to leave the app unfortunatly
    All I can see on here now is advertisements saying to prove I'm 18+ with a weekly charge. If I can't find a way to get rid of these I might have to leave the app unfortunatly
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  • Am I 'just' a CD? Am I a sissy? Am I something else? How do I find out? Can anyone help? (p.s. I'm not looking for any paid for Dom service) feel free to comment or message me. Thanks!
    Am I 'just' a CD? Am I a sissy? Am I something else? How do I find out? Can anyone help? (p.s. I'm not looking for any paid for Dom service) feel free to comment or message me. Thanks!
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  • Forgive the long post, but I was doing some journalling this evening as I reflected on a few things. In a moment of clarity I managed to come up with some really interesting self-realisations, particularly about why I dress. And I wanted to share them somewhere!

    I began to realise the other place I adopt some of the same habits and mental approach to crossdressing is when I've done tabletop role playing like D&D: I get really involved in 'immersing' myself in a character at the table, and get really deep into their mannerisms and subtle nuances of their backstory.

    I think me being Bethany is very much the same. I know I have no intention of even transitioning. However, she is a role or a character I just love to put on and play sometimes; suddenly I'm making backstory, writing lore, adding costume. I'm not necessarily trying to become her, I just want to play the role authentically.

    I think as a way of framing myself, I find that so helpful to register. Hopefully it resonates with others too.
    Forgive the long post, but I was doing some journalling this evening as I reflected on a few things. In a moment of clarity I managed to come up with some really interesting self-realisations, particularly about why I dress. And I wanted to share them somewhere! I began to realise the other place I adopt some of the same habits and mental approach to crossdressing is when I've done tabletop role playing like D&D: I get really involved in 'immersing' myself in a character at the table, and get really deep into their mannerisms and subtle nuances of their backstory. I think me being Bethany is very much the same. I know I have no intention of even transitioning. However, she is a role or a character I just love to put on and play sometimes; suddenly I'm making backstory, writing lore, adding costume. I'm not necessarily trying to become her, I just want to play the role authentically. I think as a way of framing myself, I find that so helpful to register. Hopefully it resonates with others too.🙂
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  • When I do x dress I actually forget who I am & to be honest I find it quite rewarding I love the comforting feel & satisfaction & the warm sexual energy flowing through me
    When I do x dress 👗 I actually forget who I am & to be honest I find it quite rewarding 😘 I love 🥰 the comforting feel & satisfaction & the warm sexual energy flowing through me ❤️
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  • MasterRoy blocked. well why wouldn't you lol. I see these pics and they just make me laugh. Maybe sexy for some but i just find this look funny af lol. Someone else must have too going by the laugh emoji
    MasterRoy blocked. well why wouldn't you lol. I see these pics and they just make me laugh. Maybe sexy for some but i just find this look funny af lol. Someone else must have too going by the laugh emoji
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  • Its nice to know there millions of us who like to crossdress
    I remember when i first started i thought i was abnormal as time goes by i realised im not alone and some cd i find sexually attattractive
    Its nice to know there millions of us who like to crossdress I remember when i first started i thought i was abnormal as time goes by i realised im not alone and some cd i find sexually attattractive 😜
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  • Had a blonde moment. Bought a jacket from Temu. In the picture it came with a belt but when I took it out of the bag there was no belt. So I ordered a similar one only to find the belt had fallen out of the bag when I got the jacket out. So now I have 2 belts!
    Had a blonde moment. Bought a jacket from Temu. In the picture it came with a belt but when I took it out of the bag there was no belt. So I ordered a similar one only to find the belt had fallen out of the bag when I got the jacket out. So now I have 2 belts!
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  • What a sod!
    Can’t find the veet (groin bum genitals tbc)
    Looks like razor mmmm
    Wish me luck mmm
    What a sod! Can’t find the veet (groin bum genitals tbc) Looks like razor mmmm Wish me luck mmm
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  • It's just awful how when you go to the mall with a friend, so many people only look at your appearance and can't see the big heart you want to give, waiting to find someone who can take care of it, because everyone is so used to seeing lies, opportunists, and people who just want to take advantage of others. If only there was a way to show what I'm like inside, beyond my appearance, people would definitely try to get closer to me. to me, even just as friends, but everyone is too used to seeing only the superficiality of others, and that, well, that breaks my heart.
    It's just awful how when you go to the mall with a friend, so many people only look at your appearance and can't see the big heart you want to give, waiting to find someone who can take care of it, because everyone is so used to seeing lies, opportunists, and people who just want to take advantage of others. If only there was a way to show what I'm like inside, beyond my appearance, people would definitely try to get closer to me. to me, even just as friends, but everyone is too used to seeing only the superficiality of others, and that, well, that breaks my heart.
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  • Maybe this is help me to find friends
    Maybe this is help me to find friends😉😊🥰
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  • Shameless ...

    They call me shameless
    Shameless Kate
    Who's wildly walk the street
    Who has no skirt over her tights
    And bluches cheeks in pink...

    Yes I am walking
    Simply sans
    Sans shame
    And sans barriers...
    Some men are trying
    Steeet romance
    To offer one night
    Stand...
    And women put sad eyes away
    To hide some interest...
    Kate lost her touch
    She lost her taste
    And often She's madly
    strange ...
    Kate came to Earth from Io's space...

    One Fairy Lady asked me once
    What I have lost in past
    I answered
    I lost my pants
    My dress and wish to Love...
    She whispered me known words
    My Granny taught to me once:
    "You're Allien
    My dear girl
    And this is
    Pure fact...
    Word "boy" was only
    Coverup
    to hide your roots and past ...
    Remember Io
    Little girl
    The only place with Love...
    And if the acid rain begins
    Get rid of cotton dress
    And stay in tights
    However think
    With anger or impressed...
    ...
    Until you learn
    To hide your Love
    Be opened and undressed
    And never mind
    What other think...
    They are no interest...

    My little girl
    It's worth to fall
    To learn how
    Nice is flight...
    And when you landed
    Loosing skirt
    Just walk
    Not shy
    With pride...
    You're never looking
    For Earth sex
    It's hard to find true Love
    Just walk,
    Don't look aside or back
    Just walk your own Path...
    Shameless ... They call me shameless Shameless Kate Who's wildly walk the street Who has no skirt over her tights And bluches cheeks in pink... Yes I am walking Simply sans Sans shame And sans barriers... Some men are trying Steeet romance To offer one night Stand... And women put sad eyes away To hide some interest... Kate lost her touch She lost her taste And often She's madly strange ... Kate came to Earth from Io's space... One Fairy Lady asked me once What I have lost in past I answered I lost my pants My dress and wish to Love... She whispered me known words My Granny taught to me once: "You're Allien My dear girl And this is Pure fact... Word "boy" was only Coverup to hide your roots and past ... Remember Io Little girl The only place with Love... And if the acid rain begins Get rid of cotton dress And stay in tights However think With anger or impressed... ... Until you learn To hide your Love Be opened and undressed And never mind What other think... They are no interest... My little girl It's worth to fall To learn how Nice is flight... And when you landed Loosing skirt Just walk Not shy With pride... You're never looking For Earth sex It's hard to find true Love Just walk, Don't look aside or back Just walk your own Path...
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  • When I was choosing a makeup primer, I was puzzled by the color; it turns out every primer is different. So what should I choose? Who should I ask? Who should I find out from?

    White is the most popular color, and if you choose one with a radiant effect, it's great for aging skin, helping to conceal wrinkles.

    But if you have bags under your eyes, a yellow primer will come in handy.

    Pink and peach colors are suitable for those with a dull complexion.

    A green primer is ideal for those with rosacea (protruding blood vessels through the skin), redness, or very fair skin.

    But if you have pigmentation or yellowness, a purple primer is best. It's especially useful when shooting with a flash.

    Such knowledge can sometimes be difficult to keep in mind; manufacturers have now started releasing universal primers for trial, where all colors blend together when applied. I prefer generalists, although generalism isn't always better than more specialized knowledge.

    I hope you found it interesting.
    When I was choosing a makeup primer, I was puzzled by the color; it turns out every primer is different. So what should I choose? Who should I ask? Who should I find out from? White is the most popular color, and if you choose one with a radiant effect, it's great for aging skin, helping to conceal wrinkles. But if you have bags under your eyes, a yellow primer will come in handy. Pink and peach colors are suitable for those with a dull complexion. A green primer is ideal for those with rosacea (protruding blood vessels through the skin), redness, or very fair skin. But if you have pigmentation or yellowness, a purple primer is best. It's especially useful when shooting with a flash. Such knowledge can sometimes be difficult to keep in mind; manufacturers have now started releasing universal primers for trial, where all colors blend together when applied. I prefer generalists, although generalism isn't always better than more specialized knowledge. I hope you found it interesting.
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  • love it when checking scammers profiles out and then they send a friends request. Only for me to find they are not available cos i blocked them lol
    love it when checking scammers profiles out and then they send a friends request. Only for me to find they are not available cos i blocked them lol
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  • Hi ladies. The need for proper makeup skills is clearly a pressing need. I don't know if linking is allowed here, so I won't. But I can recommend a good app that can be very helpful in determining your skin tone, undertone, and so on. Just take a selfie in good lighting (this is important), and the app will then determine it for you. It will then select the appropriate colors for makeup, clothing, and hair. I'm not promoting it, but I use it myself. You can find it on many platforms, such as Google Play and the App Store. It's called Dressica. The logo for the app is included in the post to avoid confusion.
    Hi ladies. The need for proper makeup skills is clearly a pressing need. I don't know if linking is allowed here, so I won't. But I can recommend a good app that can be very helpful in determining your skin tone, undertone, and so on. Just take a selfie in good lighting (this is important), and the app will then determine it for you. It will then select the appropriate colors for makeup, clothing, and hair. I'm not promoting it, but I use it myself. You can find it on many platforms, such as Google Play and the App Store. It's called Dressica. The logo for the app is included in the post to avoid confusion.
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  • My goals for 2026 are to give my Cat side more freedom, find love and not care who knows about it all.
    My goals for 2026 are to give my Cat side more freedom, find love and not care who knows about it all.
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  • Verse 1
    I walk the streets with borrowed light,
    A picture framed for someone’s sight.
    Smiles on faces, perfect and small—
    A thousand windows, none of them mine at all.

    Pre-Chorus
    We act the parts that others write,
    Hide the edges, hide the fight.
    Under neon, under glass,
    Something honest waits to pass.

    Chorus
    For all the world to see
    For all the world to be
    For all the world to love
    But for me

    Verse 2
    They take our names and bill them bright,
    Sell us stories dressed up for night.
    I learn to nod, I learn to play,
    Forget the map that shows my way.

    Pre-Chorus
    But in a quiet corner of the day,
    A softer truth might find a way.
    A hand, a word, a light not planned—
    Small rebellions by an open hand.

    Chorus
    For all the world to see
    For all the world to be
    For all the world to love
    But for me

    Bridge (spoken, intimate)
    Not for the applause, not for the frame,
    Not for the headline or someone’s name.
    I want a place where I can stay—
    Tender, untidy, simply made.

    Verse 3
    So leave a note on a porch tonight,
    Share your coat with someone in the cold.
    These little truths are how we start
    Turning quiet pieces into heart.

    Chorus (layered, aching)
    For all the world to see
    For all the world to be
    For all the world to love
    But for me

    Outro (fade, single whispered line)
    For the world to be…
    But for me. No
    Verse 1 I walk the streets with borrowed light, A picture framed for someone’s sight. Smiles on faces, perfect and small— A thousand windows, none of them mine at all. Pre-Chorus We act the parts that others write, Hide the edges, hide the fight. Under neon, under glass, Something honest waits to pass. Chorus For all the world to see For all the world to be For all the world to love But for me Verse 2 They take our names and bill them bright, Sell us stories dressed up for night. I learn to nod, I learn to play, Forget the map that shows my way. Pre-Chorus But in a quiet corner of the day, A softer truth might find a way. A hand, a word, a light not planned— Small rebellions by an open hand. Chorus For all the world to see For all the world to be For all the world to love But for me Bridge (spoken, intimate) Not for the applause, not for the frame, Not for the headline or someone’s name. I want a place where I can stay— Tender, untidy, simply made. Verse 3 So leave a note on a porch tonight, Share your coat with someone in the cold. These little truths are how we start Turning quiet pieces into heart. Chorus (layered, aching) For all the world to see For all the world to be For all the world to love But for me Outro (fade, single whispered line) For the world to be… But for me. No
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  • I usually find it difficult to express myself so directly, especially when speaking publicly, but I want to say that I often see many people dressed up here and that you are all really beautiful and attractive. I say this sincerely, especially because I think few people here point it out, so I just wanted to say that you have beautiful photos and that I admire your carefree attitude, one of the reasons why I chose to stay here. Otherwise, I'll blush, it's not easy for me to express myself.
    I usually find it difficult to express myself so directly, especially when speaking publicly, but I want to say that I often see many people dressed up here and that you are all really beautiful and attractive. I say this sincerely, especially because I think few people here point it out, so I just wanted to say that you have beautiful photos and that I admire your carefree attitude, one of the reasons why I chose to stay here. Otherwise, I'll blush, it's not easy for me to express myself. 😊
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  • I never really got into crossdressing until about 7 years ago, (I am 47) but it always in me and sometimes it would come out, Halloween especially, another reason I love that season.
    But looking back, one of my first memories was locking myself in my older sister's room and getting caught in her dress. I think I was born to crossdress.
    Now I have been single a long time and I live alone so I am free to express myself I find Cat was definitely always there, I am not one for regrets, but I wish I had set Cat free years ago, but it was a different world then.
    I am pleased and thankful the Cat can come out of the bag now, even if the bag is hidden in closet.
    I never really got into crossdressing until about 7 years ago, (I am 47) but it always in me and sometimes it would come out, Halloween especially, another reason I love that season. But looking back, one of my first memories was locking myself in my older sister's room and getting caught in her dress. I think I was born to crossdress. Now I have been single a long time and I live alone so I am free to express myself I find Cat was definitely always there, I am not one for regrets, but I wish I had set Cat free years ago, but it was a different world then. I am pleased and thankful the Cat can come out of the bag now, even if the bag is hidden in closet.
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  • Teaser - Girl friends. I think you will find the next photos I post to be truely amazing. They will be me 10+ years ago at 137 pounds. My lowest weight since HS. Problem is it took me an entire year to lose the weight and only about 6 months to regain most of it back. Because I run and swim a lot it is hard for me to diet so much and still have energy to do those activities. More Tomorrow.






    Teaser - Girl friends. I think you will find the next photos I post to be truely amazing. They will be me 10+ years ago at 137 pounds. My lowest weight since HS. Problem is it took me an entire year to lose the weight and only about 6 months to regain most of it back. Because I run and swim a lot it is hard for me to diet so much and still have energy to do those activities. More Tomorrow. 🥰
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  • Greetings to you, my dear sisters. And to you, Admirers. I wanted to tell you a little about myself. I started crossdressing relatively recently, about five years ago. I'd been wanting to do it for a while, of course, but I only got around to trying it recently. What did it give me? Well, it motivated me to lose weight, from 130 kg to 78, although my body is still not perfect; my body fat percentage is excessive, in my opinion, and such a significant weight loss couldn't help but negatively impact both my face and body. I also began to better understand women and how they think. When you look at yourself in a dress in the mirror and realize it doesn't suit your figure or the color... Oh yes, now the thoughts of women in the same situation are much clearer. I've discovered things men don't think about, like how to determine my body type to match it with clothes, my face type to match a wig, my skin tone and undertone to choose the right makeup colors, my overall complexion, and its level of contrast, which helps me choose clothing colors. I'm really interested in exploring all of this. Of course, I'm not perfect at everything. I'm not very good at makeup; for example, I'm still working on my body despite having suffered numerous injuries. Losing weight isn't always a good thing; it exposes problems I never even suspected. Sometimes my looks look a bit slutty, my wardrobe isn't very large, and I can't find shoes in the right size. I also have to hide my hobbies, like hiding my face in photos, because I get more negativity and threats from the world than positive ones. But at the same time, there's a sense of harmony and inner peace when I have the rare opportunity to transform myself, even if only temporarily.
    My English isn't very good, I use an online translator, and the text may be a bit awkward, so please excuse me.
    Kisses to you all, sisters, wherever you are.
    Greetings to you, my dear sisters. And to you, Admirers. I wanted to tell you a little about myself. I started crossdressing relatively recently, about five years ago. I'd been wanting to do it for a while, of course, but I only got around to trying it recently. What did it give me? Well, it motivated me to lose weight, from 130 kg to 78, although my body is still not perfect; my body fat percentage is excessive, in my opinion, and such a significant weight loss couldn't help but negatively impact both my face and body. I also began to better understand women and how they think. When you look at yourself in a dress in the mirror and realize it doesn't suit your figure or the color... Oh yes, now the thoughts of women in the same situation are much clearer.🙂 I've discovered things men don't think about, like how to determine my body type to match it with clothes, my face type to match a wig, my skin tone and undertone to choose the right makeup colors, my overall complexion, and its level of contrast, which helps me choose clothing colors. I'm really interested in exploring all of this. Of course, I'm not perfect at everything. I'm not very good at makeup; for example, I'm still working on my body despite having suffered numerous injuries. Losing weight isn't always a good thing; it exposes problems I never even suspected. 🤔Sometimes my looks look a bit slutty, my wardrobe isn't very large, and I can't find shoes in the right size. I also have to hide my hobbies, like hiding my face in photos, because I get more negativity and threats from the world than positive ones.🤐 But at the same time, there's a sense of harmony and inner peace when I have the rare opportunity to transform myself, even if only temporarily.☺️ My English isn't very good, I use an online translator, and the text may be a bit awkward, so please excuse me. Kisses to you all, sisters, wherever you are.😚😙😚💝
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  • I dream of safely leaving the house dressed up, especially if a stranger finds out about me and it excited them.
    I dressed as snow white one Halloween "for a laugh" and went to a party where a couple of men I knew " jokingly" groped my butt and legs and I fell down a rabbit hole and I never got out, Iwonder if they were as aware of my growing lump in my panties as I was of there's in rheir jeans, Iand still love to be groped
    I dream of safely leaving the house dressed up, especially if a stranger finds out about me and it excited them. I dressed as snow white one Halloween "for a laugh" and went to a party where a couple of men I knew " jokingly" groped my butt and legs and I fell down a rabbit hole and I never got out, Iwonder if they were as aware of my growing lump in my panties as I was of there's in rheir jeans, Iand still love to be groped 😅😻
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  • I am thinking of coming out as Bi, I would like to find someone so I can be more free to be Cat, not to live as Cat, but to have that space with someone to express her with a little help, I am sure all crossdressers will say it's not easy feminising alone.
    I am at a stage in my life where people who know me want me to be happy, nobody needs to know the details.
    Cat having a loving owner sounds good now.
    I am thinking of coming out as Bi, I would like to find someone so I can be more free to be Cat, not to live as Cat, but to have that space with someone to express her with a little help, I am sure all crossdressers will say it's not easy feminising alone. I am at a stage in my life where people who know me want me to be happy, nobody needs to know the details. Cat having a loving owner sounds good now.
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  • sorry all for the many b1tch finder general announcements but there seems to be a bit of a plague of dom cis women accounts on here at the moment
    sorry all for the many b1tch finder general announcements but there seems to be a bit of a plague of dom cis women accounts on here at the moment
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  • Is it too much to ask for to find some local girls to dress with and maybe a guy to dress for?
    Is it too much to ask for to find some local girls to dress with and maybe a guy to dress for?
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  • Good afternoon my darlings. I hope the week is winding well towards the weekend for you. If you find yourself twiddling your texting thumb drop me a line for a chat
    Good afternoon my darlings. I hope the week is winding well towards the weekend for you. If you find yourself twiddling your texting thumb drop me a line for a chat 😊💋💋💋
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  • Unraveling the Thread: How Clothing Has Been Used to Subjugate Women—and Why That’s Changing
    By Chrissy

    Why do women have to cover their chests while men can go shirtless in public? It’s a question that may seem simple—but carries profound implications about gender, power, and control. What we wear has never been neutral. Clothing is one of the most immediate ways society tells us who we are, or who we’re allowed to be. And when it comes to gender, clothing has been weaponized—especially against women—for centuries.

    But this isn’t just about history. It’s about lived experience. It’s personal.

    My Own Journey Through the Fabric of Gender

    As someone still exploring my own gender identity, this topic isn’t abstract. I was always a little more feminine than masculine, even as a child. For years, I repressed it—hiding behind "boy clothes" and what society expected of me. But in time, especially through the support of loving partners and close relationships, I came to embrace not only my homosexuality but something even deeper: the truth of my transgender identity. I am a woman—a female self long trapped in a male body.

    Though I firmly believe clothing shouldn't define gender—because gender identity is internal, not sartorial—clothing still does carry that symbolic weight in our world today. And so, until I find the strength to publicly transition, I express my femininity in the ways that are available to me now: I wear bras and female underwear every day in secret beneath my outwardly masculine clothing. In private, I allow myself to wear skirts, dresses, lingerie, and the soft, beautiful fabrics that make me feel aligned with my true self.

    It’s not about performance. It’s about presence. It’s about reclaiming what was always mine.

    The History of Clothing as a Tool of Gender Control

    To understand how we got here, we must look back.

    Clothing began as a means of protection. But from early civilization onward, it evolved into a tool of social stratification—and eventually, a means of gender control. Ancient societies created strict visual codes for women, emphasizing modesty, submission, and containment. While men wore tunics or armor suited for movement, battle, and public life, women were wrapped, tied, bound, and veiled.

    The message was clear: men moved freely through the world. Women did not.

    In medieval and early modern Europe, this dichotomy hardened. Men's clothing was practical. Women’s clothing was restrictive, ornate, and often uncomfortably symbolic. Corsets, crinolines, and hoop skirts made running, fighting, or even breathing difficult. These garments weren’t just fashion—they were cages.

    If you were wearing a dress, you weren’t riding into battle. You weren’t speaking in court. You weren’t commanding an army or a kingdom. You were ornamental. You were controlled.

    Modesty, the Female Chest, and the Double Standard

    These patterns persist today—nowhere more clearly than in the sexualization of the female chest. The fact that a man can walk down the street shirtless without a second glance, while a woman can be arrested for doing the same, speaks volumes. This isn’t about modesty. It’s about power and shame.

    The female chest has been hyper-sexualized while simultaneously shrouded in taboo. This serves to objectify women and punish them at the same time. Even breastfeeding in public is controversial in many places—seen not as natural or maternal, but as obscene.

    This double standard is part of a larger system that says women must be desirable but modest, visible but not too loud, strong but not threatening. And clothing is the vehicle through which these contradictory demands are enforced.

    Clothing as Power—and Resistance

    Throughout history, clothing has helped define who was allowed to hold power. Male garments—uniforms, suits, boots—were made for authority. Female garments were not.

    This is why women were long excluded from spaces of governance and decision-making. Until just a few decades ago, women couldn’t wear pants in courtrooms or on the floor of the U.S. Senate. Power had a dress code—and that dress code was male. To be continued in next post...

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    Unraveling the Thread: How Clothing Has Been Used to Subjugate Women—and Why That’s Changing By Chrissy Why do women have to cover their chests while men can go shirtless in public? It’s a question that may seem simple—but carries profound implications about gender, power, and control. What we wear has never been neutral. Clothing is one of the most immediate ways society tells us who we are, or who we’re allowed to be. And when it comes to gender, clothing has been weaponized—especially against women—for centuries. But this isn’t just about history. It’s about lived experience. It’s personal. My Own Journey Through the Fabric of Gender As someone still exploring my own gender identity, this topic isn’t abstract. I was always a little more feminine than masculine, even as a child. For years, I repressed it—hiding behind "boy clothes" and what society expected of me. But in time, especially through the support of loving partners and close relationships, I came to embrace not only my homosexuality but something even deeper: the truth of my transgender identity. I am a woman—a female self long trapped in a male body. Though I firmly believe clothing shouldn't define gender—because gender identity is internal, not sartorial—clothing still does carry that symbolic weight in our world today. And so, until I find the strength to publicly transition, I express my femininity in the ways that are available to me now: I wear bras and female underwear every day in secret beneath my outwardly masculine clothing. In private, I allow myself to wear skirts, dresses, lingerie, and the soft, beautiful fabrics that make me feel aligned with my true self. It’s not about performance. It’s about presence. It’s about reclaiming what was always mine. The History of Clothing as a Tool of Gender Control To understand how we got here, we must look back. Clothing began as a means of protection. But from early civilization onward, it evolved into a tool of social stratification—and eventually, a means of gender control. Ancient societies created strict visual codes for women, emphasizing modesty, submission, and containment. While men wore tunics or armor suited for movement, battle, and public life, women were wrapped, tied, bound, and veiled. The message was clear: men moved freely through the world. Women did not. In medieval and early modern Europe, this dichotomy hardened. Men's clothing was practical. Women’s clothing was restrictive, ornate, and often uncomfortably symbolic. Corsets, crinolines, and hoop skirts made running, fighting, or even breathing difficult. These garments weren’t just fashion—they were cages. If you were wearing a dress, you weren’t riding into battle. You weren’t speaking in court. You weren’t commanding an army or a kingdom. You were ornamental. You were controlled. Modesty, the Female Chest, and the Double Standard These patterns persist today—nowhere more clearly than in the sexualization of the female chest. The fact that a man can walk down the street shirtless without a second glance, while a woman can be arrested for doing the same, speaks volumes. This isn’t about modesty. It’s about power and shame. The female chest has been hyper-sexualized while simultaneously shrouded in taboo. This serves to objectify women and punish them at the same time. Even breastfeeding in public is controversial in many places—seen not as natural or maternal, but as obscene. This double standard is part of a larger system that says women must be desirable but modest, visible but not too loud, strong but not threatening. And clothing is the vehicle through which these contradictory demands are enforced. Clothing as Power—and Resistance Throughout history, clothing has helped define who was allowed to hold power. Male garments—uniforms, suits, boots—were made for authority. Female garments were not. This is why women were long excluded from spaces of governance and decision-making. Until just a few decades ago, women couldn’t wear pants in courtrooms or on the floor of the U.S. Senate. Power had a dress code—and that dress code was male. To be continued in next post... Love, Chrissy #crossdresser #crossdressing #CD #gurl #sissy #sissyboy #trans #tgirl #transgirl #transwoman #transgender #ladyboy #femboy #shemale
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  • My First Crossdresser Makeover, Finding Confidence at Sensual Passions

    I finally took the leap and booked my first professional makeover with Sonia at Sensual Passions, and it turned out to be one of the most transformative experiences I’ve ever had.

    What started as pure nerves quickly became something empowering and deeply personal. Seeing myself reflected back in the mirror, not as a stranger but as me, was an emotional moment I’ll never forget.

    Sonia’s approach made everything feel safe, respectful, and affirming — I’d recommend it to anyone who’s ever thought about trying a makeover but felt too nervous to take that first step.

    I shared the full story (with all the details and reflections) on our site here:
    https://crossdressed.co.uk/sensual-passions-my-first-crossdresser-makeover/

    How was your first makeover experience? What did it make you realise about yourself?
    My First Crossdresser Makeover, Finding Confidence at Sensual Passions 💋 I finally took the leap and booked my first professional makeover with Sonia at Sensual Passions, and it turned out to be one of the most transformative experiences I’ve ever had. What started as pure nerves quickly became something empowering and deeply personal. Seeing myself reflected back in the mirror, not as a stranger but as me, was an emotional moment I’ll never forget. Sonia’s approach made everything feel safe, respectful, and affirming — I’d recommend it to anyone who’s ever thought about trying a makeover but felt too nervous to take that first step. I shared the full story (with all the details and reflections) on our site here: 👉 https://crossdressed.co.uk/sensual-passions-my-first-crossdresser-makeover/ How was your first makeover experience? What did it make you realise about yourself? 💄
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    Join Crossdressed UK for a first professional crossdresser makeover with Sonia at Sensual Passions, a day of nerves, laughter, transformation, and pure empowerment.
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  • About “Shemale Chrissy”

    Hello everyone, I want to introduce myself and share a little bit of my story with you. This is a space where I can express who I am—openly, honestly, and without shame. I’m still exploring parts of my identity, learning more about myself every day, and I hope to find friends, support, and maybe even a sense of belonging along the way.

    I want to clarify that I mean no offense to biological women. I deeply respect the struggles and experiences they have faced and continue to face. I acknowledge that I will never fully understand what it feels like to be a woman from birth, nor can I claim to have experienced that journey firsthand.

    That said, I’ve always felt more feminine than masculine and genuinely enjoy being perceived as a woman. Given my age, I don’t believe I can—or want to—fully transition or live as a woman full time. In truth, I may simply be a crossdresser who expresses their femininity in ways that make them feel whole. What matters to me is being able to embrace and live that side of myself authentically, even if it isn’t “traditional.”

    I also want to be honest about the terms I use to describe myself. I sometimes refer to myself as a “sissy” or a “shemale,” among other words. I mean no offense by these labels—they’re simply part of how I’m exploring my identity and finding language that fits me. Sometimes I use filters or soft edits in photos—not to trick anyone—but to help me live out a personal dream or fantasy, even just digitally. It’s for me, a way to see myself as I’ve always imagined.

    I like showing off and receiving compliments on my body. Growing up, I never really got that kind of positive attention, and expressing this side of me now is both empowering and healing. Recently, I’ve also realized that I want to showcase this part of myself more openly—perhaps even as a model. For me, this isn’t just performance; it’s a way to claim my identity and celebrate my femininity with confidence.

    Yes, some of the content I create and share is adult or pornographic in nature. I understand that’s not for everyone, and I respect that. But for me, it’s an expression of pride, sensuality, and self-love.

    More than anything, I’m here to find friends, support, and community—to connect, share experiences, and network with people who understand or want to learn.

    Thank you for your understanding and support. #crossdresser #shemale #sissy #lgbtq #nsfw #crossdressing #gay #trans #gurl #bio #transgirl #tgirl #transwoman #transgender
    About “Shemale Chrissy” Hello everyone, I want to introduce myself and share a little bit of my story with you. This is a space where I can express who I am—openly, honestly, and without shame. I’m still exploring parts of my identity, learning more about myself every day, and I hope to find friends, support, and maybe even a sense of belonging along the way. I want to clarify that I mean no offense to biological women. I deeply respect the struggles and experiences they have faced and continue to face. I acknowledge that I will never fully understand what it feels like to be a woman from birth, nor can I claim to have experienced that journey firsthand. That said, I’ve always felt more feminine than masculine and genuinely enjoy being perceived as a woman. Given my age, I don’t believe I can—or want to—fully transition or live as a woman full time. In truth, I may simply be a crossdresser who expresses their femininity in ways that make them feel whole. What matters to me is being able to embrace and live that side of myself authentically, even if it isn’t “traditional.” I also want to be honest about the terms I use to describe myself. I sometimes refer to myself as a “sissy” or a “shemale,” among other words. I mean no offense by these labels—they’re simply part of how I’m exploring my identity and finding language that fits me. Sometimes I use filters or soft edits in photos—not to trick anyone—but to help me live out a personal dream or fantasy, even just digitally. It’s for me, a way to see myself as I’ve always imagined. I like showing off and receiving compliments on my body. Growing up, I never really got that kind of positive attention, and expressing this side of me now is both empowering and healing. Recently, I’ve also realized that I want to showcase this part of myself more openly—perhaps even as a model. For me, this isn’t just performance; it’s a way to claim my identity and celebrate my femininity with confidence. Yes, some of the content I create and share is adult or pornographic in nature. I understand that’s not for everyone, and I respect that. But for me, it’s an expression of pride, sensuality, and self-love. More than anything, I’m here to find friends, support, and community—to connect, share experiences, and network with people who understand or want to learn. Thank you for your understanding and support. ❤️#crossdresser #shemale #sissy #lgbtq #nsfw #crossdressing #gay #trans #gurl #bio #transgirl #tgirl #transwoman #transgender
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  • Hope I can find others that live near me.
    Hope I can find others that live near me.
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  • and another photo, which I do find very erotic x
    and another photo, which I do find very erotic x
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  • Finding it hard to upload a picture of mine on my profile
    Finding it hard to upload a picture of mine on my profile
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  • I am new to the crossdressing scene and could use some help finding the real me. I open for all and any new experiences. To be a bit more specific i am looking for some like minded people in and around York now, willing to talk and meet with me.
    I am new to the crossdressing scene and could use some help finding the real me. I open for all and any new experiences. To be a bit more specific i am looking for some like minded people in and around York now, willing to talk and meet with me. 💋
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  • (How to Spot a Fake)

    This is a few things you can look for when spotting a Fake Pictures. Of course there is also the The Very Poor Picture which can make things tricky. A high percentage of users use Ai in the form of Apps and Software to change there appearance. FaceApp, Snapchat and manu many more Ai based tools are available to change your appearance.

    The old addage that says if it's too good to be true then it probably is, a 60 year old will not have Flawless Skin. As you will see

    Large Body, Big Hairy Arms, Large Fingers, with beautiful flawless Face, errr No, Fake.

    Many Ai creation Software/Apps struggle to Create Hands, Hair, Facial Skin, Backgrounds. Will expand on this ..

    Hands take alot of Ai processing power and many times there will be mistakes like, Six fingers, Rings that span two fingers, Hands that Blend into other Bodyparts.

    Facial Skin is very often not Flawless, Freckles, Spots, Blemishes, Moles, Fine Hair, Often All Missing, If it's Flawless it's more than Likely Fake, unless they are Professional Models, and not likely to be here...

    Backgrounds are often either Blurry or very Perfectly Random, Often not associated with any other Photo in someone's collection, Sometimes Backgrounds are set in Luxury Rooms with Gold Plated Furniture, Not usually associated with a UK Council Estate, or Someone on Job Seekers Allowance... Common Sense on much of this.

    Bare Feet can be tricky for Ai Software too same as Hands, Same Rules Apply.

    Other people in the same photo can end up Morphing into Clothing or even other people's Body Parts, Skin near Skin of two people can be an Ai nightmare so look out for this.

    Scale is an Ai issue too, look out for Big Heads, Small Legs, way out of proportion Body Parts, all common mistakes.

    Hairy Chest, Flawless Face, - Fake. Hairy Big/Overweight Body, Flawless Face - Fake.

    Common Sense Prevails here, Think about who you are looking at, How Old, How Fit, Younger Fit People will use Natural Pictures as they have no need not too.

    Very Blurred and Poor quality photos are often used to hide something.

    Look out for photos where every shot shows the head in the same position and looks totally flawless, This is because this Face Position is the best one for the Ai Software/App to make the face look the same each time... Otherwise they may end up looking different... Fakes.

    Look carefully at the photos you like, don't just see a pretty picture and assume it is real, have a look at others they have done, don't play into there Fake loving hands.... They are trying to make you look a fool because they can con you.... Don't let it be you.

    This is just the Basics, Hope it helps. After a while you will find it easier to spot these Fakers... Enjoy your new skill
    (How to Spot a Fake) This is a few things you can look for when spotting a Fake Pictures. Of course there is also the The Very Poor Picture which can make things tricky. A high percentage of users use Ai in the form of Apps and Software to change there appearance. FaceApp, Snapchat and manu many more Ai based tools are available to change your appearance. The old addage that says if it's too good to be true then it probably is, a 60 year old will not have Flawless Skin. As you will see Large Body, Big Hairy Arms, Large Fingers, with beautiful flawless Face, errr No, Fake. Many Ai creation Software/Apps struggle to Create Hands, Hair, Facial Skin, Backgrounds. Will expand on this .. Hands take alot of Ai processing power and many times there will be mistakes like, Six fingers, Rings that span two fingers, Hands that Blend into other Bodyparts. Facial Skin is very often not Flawless, Freckles, Spots, Blemishes, Moles, Fine Hair, Often All Missing, If it's Flawless it's more than Likely Fake, unless they are Professional Models, and not likely to be here... Backgrounds are often either Blurry or very Perfectly Random, Often not associated with any other Photo in someone's collection, Sometimes Backgrounds are set in Luxury Rooms with Gold Plated Furniture, Not usually associated with a UK Council Estate, or Someone on Job Seekers Allowance... Common Sense on much of this. Bare Feet can be tricky for Ai Software too same as Hands, Same Rules Apply. Other people in the same photo can end up Morphing into Clothing or even other people's Body Parts, Skin near Skin of two people can be an Ai nightmare so look out for this. Scale is an Ai issue too, look out for Big Heads, Small Legs, way out of proportion Body Parts, all common mistakes. Hairy Chest, Flawless Face, - Fake. Hairy Big/Overweight Body, Flawless Face - Fake. Common Sense Prevails here, Think about who you are looking at, How Old, How Fit, Younger Fit People will use Natural Pictures as they have no need not too. Very Blurred and Poor quality photos are often used to hide something. Look out for photos where every shot shows the head in the same position and looks totally flawless, This is because this Face Position is the best one for the Ai Software/App to make the face look the same each time... Otherwise they may end up looking different... Fakes. Look carefully at the photos you like, don't just see a pretty picture and assume it is real, have a look at others they have done, don't play into there Fake loving hands.... They are trying to make you look a fool because they can con you.... Don't let it be you. This is just the Basics, Hope it helps. After a while you will find it easier to spot these Fakers... Enjoy your new skill
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  • So the reason my Temu order was taking so long is that one item went out of stock. Did they tell me that, No. I had to do a live chat to find that out. As soon as I cancelled that item the rest immediately got picked and dispatched. So annoying
    So the reason my Temu order was taking so long is that one item went out of stock. Did they tell me that, No. I had to do a live chat to find that out. As soon as I cancelled that item the rest immediately got picked and dispatched. So annoying
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  • It’s AI image but must admit I find it quite alluring
    It’s AI image but must admit I find it quite alluring 😘 ❤️
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  • Ya know. Being a tranny has just about split me down the middle.

    If I do it, it’s stressful finding time and keeping it all secret. If I don’t, I miss her….

    Donna’s going away for a while till I decide which way I need to go. But I’m sure she’ll keep in touch with mates

    Love you girls xx
    Ya know. Being a tranny has just about split me down the middle. If I do it, it’s stressful finding time and keeping it all secret. If I don’t, I miss her…. Donna’s going away for a while till I decide which way I need to go. But I’m sure she’ll keep in touch with mates Love you girls xx
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  • At this time I see too much judgment and few people who really want to find good friendships I see it with worried eyes but I still want to try to still find mature people in the world hoping not to find instead of toxic like yesterday and who only know how to judge without knowing first
    At this time I see too much judgment and few people who really want to find good friendships I see it with worried eyes but I still want to try to still find mature people in the world hoping not to find instead of toxic like yesterday and who only know how to judge without knowing first
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  • I would really love to find my tru love I really hope and pray for trans and not straight Female I love ****
    I would really love to find my tru love I really hope and pray for trans and not straight Female I love cock
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