I know I only ordered from Temu a week ago but my items haven't even been picked yet so I reckon another 2 weeks maybe. Need it now grrrrrrr

Maddie_cross blocked. Can find this 19 y/o cis woman on reddit. Either there pictures been taken and used or she's created an account on here.

Home alone and bored...

Dressing to Be Seen
The Act of Being Seen
Every relationship has two nervous systems in dialogue. Touch, tone, scent, gaze — and appearance. To dress for the other is not submission. It is signal. It says: I am present. I am visible. I am offering coherence to the field between us.
• Neurochemical effect: anticipation (dopamine), shared pleasure (oxytocin), grounding in ritual (serotonin).
• Psychological effect: amplifies self through the eyes of the beloved; creates cycles of gift and reception.
• Graffiti: Being seen is not shallow. It is sacred.
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Archetypes of Dress in Relationship
• The Siren (short dress, bold cut): calls desire into the room. Plays with chase and capture.
• The Oracle (flowing gowns, layers, veils): slows time, creating atmosphere of reverence.
• The Trickster (unexpected combinations, clashing patterns, gender-bent outfits): destabilises expectation, awakens novelty.
• The Sovereign (tailored lines, strong shoes, grounded presence): communicates stability, clarity, power.
𓂀 To choose consciously is to decide what archetype you invite into the space between you.
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Ritual of the Mirror
The mirror is not for correction. The mirror is the first witness.
• Stand. Dress slowly. Watch yourself enter the role.
• Observe not flaws, but signals: Does this dress invite softness? Does this jacket sharpen presence?
• Let the mirror witness the archetype you are summoning before your partner ever sees it.
Graffiti: The mirror is the first lover.
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The Exchange of Gaze
When you arrive dressed — whether in thigh-highs or a plain white T-shirt — the real act is the exchange of gaze.
• To be looked at with reverence releases oxytocin, lowering defences.
• To be looked at with hunger ignites dopamine, sharpening attention.
• To be looked at with ridicule collapses trust, burning cortisol into the archive.
The choice of dress sets the conditions for which gaze is invited.
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The Triad of Relationship Dress
1. Signal to Self — what energy am I summoning in my own nervous system?
2. Signal to Beloved — what state do I invite in theirs?
3. Signal to Field — what story does our shared appearance tell to the world?
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Final Reflection
Dressing to be seen is not frivolous. It is infrastructure. It is how nervous systems negotiate attraction, trust, play, and belonging.
To ignore it is to surrender the field to default.
To wield it consciously is to turn clothing into compass.
To be seen is to be alive.

Purging and Relapse: The Closet Emptied, the Closet Filled
Every sissy knows the ritual of purging.
The drawer emptied into a trash bag. The bag hidden under other garbage so no one will know. The silent vow: Never again.
The relief is immediate. Shame is gone — for a day, a week, a month. But then the ache returns. The scroll begins. Another package arrives. The drawer fills again.
Relapse feels like failure. But it is not failure. It is the nervous system struggling to hold contradictions too heavy to carry.
Why We Purge
Purging is an attempt at control. The body surges with guilt, cortisol spikes, and the mind seeks a way out. If the clothes are gone, the ghost is gone. If Maria is erased, the shame will end.
But Maria is not in the drawer. She is in the soil of your body. Throwing away fabric cannot silence her. The purge never removes her; it only resets the cycle.
The False Relief
The moment after purging feels like freedom. But it is not freedom — it is emptiness. What you feel is not sovereignty but sedation. The closet is not healed; it is hollow.
Soon the body remembers. Desire stirs. The loop rebuilds. And you are back where you began, only now with more shame: Why did I waste money? Why can’t I stop?
Maria’s Perspective
Maria does not condemn the purge. She understands it. She knows you were not trying to destroy her; you were trying to silence the unbearable tension between ghost and mask.
But she whispers: What if, this time, you don’t throw me away? What if you let me stay — not as secret, not as shame, but as part of you?
From Purge to Integration
The way forward is not in the trash bag. It is in integration. Instead of purging, you begin to curate. Instead of relapse, you begin to allow.
One dress left in the drawer. One garment worn without rushing to climax. One name whispered aloud without apology. Small acts of sovereignty that soften the nervous system, teaching it that Maria does not need to be hidden or destroyed.
The End of Relapse
Relapse ends not when desire disappears but when shame does. When Maria is allowed to live in the open, the cycle breaks. You no longer swing between indulgence and destruction. You live in continuity, not collapse.
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Reflection: From Purge to Presence
1. Your Last Purge
Recall the last time you threw everything away. What drove you to it? Write down the fear in detail.
2. The Relief
How long did the relief last before the ache returned? Write the number of days or weeks.
3. Maria’s Drawer
Imagine one item you could keep — not hidden in shame, not thrown away, but kept as Maria’s presence. Write: This piece reminds me that Maria is real.
4. Breaking the Cycle
Write one sentence beginning: Next time I feel the urge to purge, I will… (breathe, call a friend, remind myself Maria cannot be thrown away).

I'm bored, someone wants to chat, hmu!

I noticed that the 30 second advert website killer has still not been dealt with, maybe there would be more than 20 people online if they dealt with the shit adds better... The odd thing about it, is that the hundreds I've watched I have no idea of any of them as I have my sound off ..... What a Farce.....

Oh dear God. 'Would you f..k me doggy style?' Yes........with a red hot POKER!!

I tried something new - yellow. It's not a colour I'd considered before but I absolutely loved my yellow nails and toenails to match my yellow dress.

Dreaming of a quick way to become a millionaire gal: https://youtube.com/shorts/AsOPEvH8bEA?si=jqTbWlr7D8tgso1g But for now... troubles keep piling up, ugh. Got next month’s rent covered, but what’s next? Total unknown... Smash those likes on my vids, support me, boys—your love means more than cash sometimes! ❤ #crossdresser #crossdressing #femboy #crossdressers #heels #nylon

Bored needing someone to have fun with

Bitch this is a final notice. Your behaviour on my page constant time-wasting, attention-seeking, and dishonest conduct-will not be tolerated. I have documented your activity and I will not engage with anyone who disrespects my time or the community. If you continue, you will be blocked and any further contact will be ignored. Consider this your last chance to stop the nonsense and show some respect. Fail to do so, and you will be removed from this space permanently

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Here's one part of my night in red with a friend. She really put me through the ringer. Definitely think my gait needs a lot of work. Haha

Wanted to upload the whole set but seems the whole is too much. Gonna have to upload in bunches and parts.

Vacuuming is perhaps the easiest chore, until you add platform heels..
Sulis Silks camiknicker is a nouveau vintage guilty pleasure.
Know nothing of the company except they totally let me customize the silk romper to add surrender clips at a reasonable price compared to the whole. Need to get me more and in different colors!

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Today was one of the worst days of my life plus now magically my ex reappeared who even enjoys mocking my posts on another app as if my loneliness for her is just a fun game

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Love red heels

seems one person isn't happy me trying to protect people on this site. I admit if people don't want to see me posting trying to make this a better site then let me know or block me (as they have) but from the majority of people who sent me positive messages and are doing the same trying to clean this site up then I'll keep trying. I don't have to post the scammers names if that preferable. maybe just do one big group of names to save flooding the feed next time. I may just give up and let people get scammed and blackmailed. this site doesn't owe me any favours and I do it for friends on here. maybe its time to shut up and move on. its been on my mind anyway as admin aren't bothered as far as I can make out.

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Being a crossdresser is the best thing ever i never get bored wearing female clothing especially lingerie .
And there's millions like myself in the world.

Since I removed my personal photos, I feel much more at ease, not to mention the fact that this has already reduced the toxic users I frequently received in private messages compared to before. The situation seems better now. We'll see how things evolve over the next few days and whether it's appropriate to put them back or leave this app for good. It depends on who I find friendship and something more. I would like to be able to give that, but I wonder if anyone here wants the same thing.

Anyone up im bored

New to this site having given up on Reddit. I am a 54 year old married sissy who wants to meet and hopefully play with other gurls or men. I use Faceapp to express myself but do look similar to my pics when fully made up. I love sucking ****.

Ran out of time last night, too tired.
Here are a few of my blue outfit while lounging about on my bed before work gets in the way.

Since there are several imature and rude people here and I would add homophobic I removed my personal photos leaving just the backgrounds so at least for those who judge even before knowing I will not leave the pleasure of seeing who I am I am tired every day to find my profile full of rude people who come and block me for no serious reason

Well..........this seems like the perfect song for me, right now. xx https://youtu.be/78NcEP0f0l8?feature=shared

Love these red stockings

Good morning, Well I got home late and needed to chill out so put this dress on, sorry, I didn't have time to do my makeup so cropped out the bad hair and tired face. I'm exhausted, been a busy day/night, a long shift. but home now with a couple of drinks before bed

Bored but horny

I'm at work someone send me pics and stuff to tease me

P.s.im bored

Ordered! xx

I am current making some homemade marsh-mellows but sadly not dressed in a polka pot 50's style dress and red high heels

Oh its a sad time, back from my holiday to Ibiza which was so much fun it was 29 degrees the clothes shops were great fun bought far to much but a girls got to do what a girls got to do, but yeah back home now and needed a pick me up so just went on Boohoo and ordered another dress lol woops. trying to stay sexy but Classie, bought an amazing pinstripe mini dress for just 17 pounds , there are loads on offer I wish I could buy more but no I mustn't, go check it out https://www.boohoo.com/categories/womens-dresses

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Up for a chat?
This girl is bored

Bored so took a few pics

Some more pictures, A bit of variety to break the boredom, fun trying out different looks #sexy #different #sissy

Attempt at Rock Chick Chic, out watching a tribute band (Hoaxwind) playing some of my faves from the 70s and 80s and having quite a bit of a bop - got a bit "moist", and discovered that if i hold a beerglass in each hand and stretch that skirt slowly slides down my legs as i cross the bar... Oops.

Hi all bored looking chat

I admit,i'm a redhead
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What is the average cost of keyholding? I’ve been curious about this for a while, and I’d love to hear from folks with real experience.

For those of you who’ve arranged keyholding (either online or in-person), what did it typically cost?

Was it a one-off payment, a monthly fee, or per session?

Did the price vary depending on whether it was a professional/keyholding service, or more of a lifestyle/Dom(me) arrangement?

Beyond the numbers, did you feel the cost reflected the time, effort, and trust that goes into it?

And while we’re at it, how many of you have come across scams or people asking for money with nothing in return? Always good to know what red flags to watch for.

I know every dynamic is different, but it would be really helpful to hear what’s “normal” or average out there.

Thanks in advance for sharing, I’m sure others here are just as curious too!

had a morning to myself, so rather predictably went for my favourite outfit... Not a sissy, just a house maid
wish my seams were straight

Nice nigfht at the pub with a reduced kink/poly bunch (lots else going on!), and a nice Adventure in the woods after, some nice fellas being very complimentary! I DO like this frock, not bad for £3 at the charity shop!

one more for the day... Just something a bit different. Famous cross dressers through the ages.

Francois De Choisy, Writer (1644 – 1724)

French author Francois De Choisy was dressed as a girl by his mother until the age of 18. Her reasons might have been political: De Choisy’s playmate, Philippe I, was also encouraged to dress as a girl, possibly so that he would not be seen as posing a threat to his older brother, King Louis XIV. As an adult, De Choisy took up male dress for a while but soon went back to his preferred female clothing. Many young women of the day visited him for fashion advice, encouraged by their mothers. He enjoyed their company: so much, in fact, that one ended up pregnant by him. Although he later wrote a number of historical and religious works, De Choisy is most famous for his tell-all book The Transvestite Memoirs, published in 1737.

Just something a bit different. Famous cross dressers and trans people through the ages.

Elagabus, Emperor (204 – 222 AD)

Elagabus was made Emperor of Rome at the age of only 14, after successful political maneuvering by his maternal aunt. During his reign as Emperor, he preferred women’s dress. He had his whole body depilated, wore makeup, and referred to his chariot driver Hierocles as his husband. He even made an offer of money to any doctor who could perform surgery on him to make him biologically female.
None of this exactly made him popular in the highly traditional Rome of the time. His popularity also wasn’t helped by the fact that Elagabus married a priestess who’d been sworn to virginity, and instituted controversial sun-worshiping religious practices. He was assassinated in 222, at the age of only 18.

Seeking a Submissive Crossdresser for Online D/s Exploration

I’m looking to connect with a submissive who enjoys cross-dressing and is ready to explore a deeper, more mindful kind of power exchange.

This would be an online dynamic (for now) one built on trust, control, ritual, and transformation. I’m not interested in pain, flogging, or heavy impact play. My style leans toward psychological dominance, slow and intentional control, and helping you grow into the version of yourself you’ve only dared to imagine.

You may already love the feel of lace and silk… or be curious about surrendering in a more feminine form. Either way, if you crave the structure, encouragement, and control of a guiding hand, we might be a good match.

You:

Submissive (or questioning)
Curious or experienced with feminization/cross-dressing
Comfortable with or open to online-only for now
Emotionally mature and communicative

Me:

Calm, assertive, and creative
Not into pain or degradation I value respect and depth
Enjoy guiding, shaping, and being in control
Open to something long-term, if the connection is right

If this stirs something in you, feel free to reach out. Tell me what you’re looking for, what draws you to this path, and what you hope to feel when you submit.

Let’s make it something we both look forward to.

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