This site is becoming more of a porn site than a safe SOCIAL place to chat about crossdressing. If I went to a social event and it was the same as here I would leave, very few posts on here can be remotely classed as SOCIAL. If I wanted to see bums, bits and sex acts I would go to a fetish party. I wish people who post on here would look at their pictures before they post them are they really what they would like to see themselves, would they be happy to see them in mixed company. I like to show off my lingerie, but the focus is on the clothes NOT my bare bum with a ribbon between my cheeks.. If we didn't have to spend so much time blocking we may have time to actually chat instead of just liking or leaving one or two word comments.