There are some strange folks cropping up - i think that last PM is from someone who's paid for the "how to pick up girls with NLP" and is trying (totally unsuccessfully) to "neg" me into submission - it's always a clue to how poor one's interpersonal skills are and how lacking one's character of any interesting qualities when you have to attempt to learn the arts of Seduction from some abusive player.
What a "Mystery" they must be. I'm sure their mum at least tries to love them.