Time for honesty fellas. Does any man on here actually like being a transvestite / cross dresser. Come on guys, be honest. I do not particularly like been one, wish I wasn't in fact. I have discussed these issues with a few female psychosexaul therapists, with a view to removing these feminine feelings I seem to get fairly regularly, and the strong urges to act them out. My idea was by speaking to these therapists if they could not totally remove these feelings, perhaps at least they could find a way so I could dampen them down, and have more comtrol over them, rather then been overwhealmed by them. Well unfortunately they all gave the same response, which was, this is part and parcel of your character, your psychological makeup, and there was little hope of changing it, these feminine feelings, no more than one could change their sexual orientation by force.
They suggested instead of fighting and hiding what I am / was inside, it would be a whole lot more easier to actually accept what you are, and show yourself some self compassion, which sounds great in theory, not to easy to do in practice. I present to the world in general, as a masculine man, and thats a fact, not as a soft, possibly feminine man, and if thats they way you present , Good Luck to you. Just my thoughts and experiences on the whole subject matter.