Well finally came back to the site. Not exactly happy about doing the verification as I don't approve of giving personal info away even in its most basic form, but B1tch Finder General said she's chewing bubble gum and kicking ass again and she's all out of gum! So if this site fails to improve i.e. scammers come back, or the verification gets annoying, then I'm likely I will move on. Happy to DM my real friends (or as I like to call them The Dirty Half Dozen) I've made, to let them know where they can find me.