Most of the time I'm 'just a regular' guy (if that's even possible), happily married and retired. I have a lifelong fetish for lingerie, especially tiny thongs. Instantaneous turn on. As my wife only seldom wanted
to wear those, one time I tried one on myself. At first I felt very silly, but also a little turned on. I gradually progressed from wearing panties to bra's, stockings, heels, wigs and dresses. I am not turned on by alpha etc guys, I need something femme. As I don't want to physically cheat on my wife, I stick to virtual fun.