Evening all, and happy new year

So not been on here in ages, have had a lot going on, so I came out to my wife as transgender, we spent a month or so trying to se if we could still make things work but understandably it was too much for her, so about 5 weeks ago we separated, our kids now know about me as do my parents who I’ve moved in with for the time being, I’m not living full time as summer out of respect for my children as I don’t want things to get awkward for them,
I’ve been seeing a counsellor for 3 months to help me come to terms with my identity, I have also spoken to my GP who has referred me to the gender clinic and I am waiting for an appointment with them,
It’s been a hard few months and as me and my wife work through separation and eventually divorce it’s not going to get easier for a while but I’m glad I’ve done it, I’m glad I can finally start on the path to being the me I’ve always wanted to be,

So my message to you all is be true to yourself, do whatever it takes to make you happy, you may hurt people along the way but if they love you they will understand and come around eventually,

Love you all, summer xxx

P.s. little Christmas party pic as haven’t really taken any in a while

Morning ladies, thank crunchie it’s Friday, appreciate some of the youngsters will have no idea what I’m on about… anyway my new philosophy if the top of your tights isn’t showing the skirt is plenty long enough… have a great day all xxx

Morning all,
Hope you are all having a good day so far,
Desperately trying to keep the legs out although definitely getting a bit cold now

Have an amazing day all
Xxx

Evening all, been a long day and still in work had to have a break from my screens so decided to pick this one up instead hope you have all had a good day and have an even better evening xxx

Morning all, have a great day everyone xxx

Just had a mad panic, on the way home on the M5 /M4 and reached into the glove box for my makeup wipes only to find the pack was empty (immediately regretting going OTT on the eye makeup this morning) stopped in 3 consecutive services to try to buy some and none sold them, all the while getting closer to home, finally found a co-op 15 minutes from home,
Will 100% be keeping a spare pack in the van from now on!!

one slight bonus I did have some workers in a van in one of the services tooting his horn as he drove past me while I was walking into the services which did cheer make my day to be honest not that I condone what is probably referred to as sexual harassment but when you’ve tried your best to look good a little recognition from anyone makes all the effort worthwhile

Morning ladies, happy Monday, last day away today, gotta find somewhere for some breakfast then head to site, then back home again tonight, had an amazing few days and really pushed myself into situations I would feel uncomfortable and guess what I had no reason to be worried, everyone I’ve met or spoken to has been completely accepting, and I get to do it all again next month, I promise more pictures next time…
Have a great day everyone
Love summer xxx

And we’re off, road trip to the midlands and a few nights away, shame about the weather but a few drinks and that won’t matter

Morning all, I have HMRC in for an audit today, tried to find an outfit that says “ trustworthy”, “reliable”, while at the same time as feminine as possible, not sure I’ve achieved it but too late now,
Have a great day all xxx

Morning all, little bit too foggy out so will have to settle for some pictures inside Winnie,
Have a great Monday everyone
Xxx

Happy Friday ladies
I call this look. “It’s supposed to be my day off I didn’t finish till 10 last night and I’m back in at 7 so sod your dress code” look
Have a great day all
Xxx

Morning ladies, quite a damp blustery day out today, hopefully this doesn’t dampen your spirits though, plus it’s a chance to dig out those winter coats
Have a great day all
Xxx

On last nights subject of passing, be honest how are my makeup skills? The women in work are too PC to be honest and truly want to know am I overdoing it is my foundation too dark, is my lipstick the wrong shade, you know what I mean, I won’t be offended, would prefer to know
Xxx

Morning ladies, going for black and white today aka ebony and ivory

Serious question…
At what point do you consider you’ve crossed the line between a cross dresser and being transgender?
I always thought the definition was if you thought you were born in the wrong body, but what if you want to be accepted as female, the only reason you’d even consider any surgery or hormones is because you want to wear more revealing clothes but are conscious breast forms and bulges may be visible,
I’m not normally one for labels, I am who I am but think this is an important thing to clarify

Lots of love summer

Morning ladies,
Trying to be down with the kids this morning, apparently cargo pants are back in as are puffer jackets, crocks with socks was a little too far for me plus can’t go without my heels

Evening ladies,
Didn’t get chance to post this morning, hope everyone had a good Monday, absolutely love this little ensemble, skirt looks amazing on and the top despite being a little short and showing a little belly when stood up the fit and colour are perfect, and although it’s hard to tell in the picture my makeup this morning was perfect, a number of the women in work commented on my eye makeup and how long my eyelashes looked,
Must be doing something right,

Morning ladies, nearly there, almost Friday,
Love a bit of pink and needed something warm today,
Have a great day all xxx

Morning all, not a bad sunrise this morning although bloody cold
Have a great day all xxx

Morning ladies, think the heels may be a little too much but sod it…
Have a great day all