NOTE: Blank profiles don't get befriended, however many friend requests they send!
FILL IN YOUR PROFILE and add a pic or two (no, not of that, nor of you holding a dead/dying fish!), otherwise how would i know whether i want to chat with you and be your friend?
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OK, back to "about me" (and yes, it's probably the longest on here, test of your fortitude and reading speed...)
I'm still partly closeted (and still unconvincing, sadly, when they see my ugly mug) but have spent a few years now attending LGBTQ+ and "vanilla" events as Jacqui, I returned to cross-dressing after plenty of, too many, years, was quite petite and androgynous in my teens / early 20s (used to get my bum pinched out at gigs and parties, girlfriend and I used to get to go home and have fun with the pinchers if we liked the look and attitude!) - and later very much into (with my then wife) the party/swinging scene - but then kids came along! Until a handful of years ago I was single dad-and-mum-in-one to a pair of youngsters, now off making their own lives :)
Since "regaining my freedom" and having my life back, some deep introspection and a life review have me realising i was always something else and that i've been transgender since i was a kid, just didn't know why i was different nor what to do about it - ignorant times, the 60s/70s/80s!
I'm 5'6, a bit "sturdy" shouldered and chested, grey eyes and hair, , working on my figure (slowly, knees are complaining but a bit less... Stomach's rumbling a lot less thanks to St Mounjaro...) and dropped from a size 22 dresses to 12 in jeans and skirts, 16 tops - UK sizes, subtract 4 for US! - and my wardrobe, particulary heels - can't do rough ground or stairs in anything over 4" though!, smoke very occasionally (and cutting down further), drink socially, love music, particularly live, in *almost* all genres (they left an imprtant "C" off Gangster Rap, "Drill" fails to please compared to the dentist's one, f'rinstance), play guitar badly and sing worse, damn good fishytarian cook, read and watch an excessive amount of SciFi, explore science and tech when time permits, and work on and off and hard in very techy roles that take a lot of my time when the contracts come around...
Preferences, intimate details (eek) - I'm definitely bottom, can really enjoy being sub, i think the term in cirrent usage is "nymph"?
I'm "average" and cut, have a slight preference for cut but cleanliness is more important! Safety's important to me too, so wrap it for anything "invasive"!
Anyway, that's me, would be good to meet interesting people nearby so get in touch if you'd care to!
Jacqui x
P.S. try to be a bit more inspiring than "Hi sexy", "Wanna meet" etc., please, If you want a response to a message!
Some More... P.P.S. notes - Some quite ancient... Some very in the moment!

AN IMPORTANT ONE:
MAGAts, Reform supporters, racists, Feminism-Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes (Damn, i wish i could think of a snappy acronym...), misogynists, misandrists, "CD/TV basher" transgenderer-than-thou gatekeepers, LGB Alliancers (you know your leadership doesn't feature anyone L, G, or B, dont you?) are, in my opinion, either gullible as hell or fundamentally rotten to their core and are invited to go play in the fast lane of their nearest motorway and do us all a favour, raise the IQ of the gene pool. This includes racist "white saviours" who think minorities can't be trusted to fight their own battles and Ludicrous Blackshirts whose every accusation is a confession.
10/5/23 - Did the test to see... IF you believe these things!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Voyeur
97% Exhibitionist
94% Rope bunny
93% Switch
90% Brat
89% Experimentalist
84% Non-monogamist
81% Ageplayer
78% Submissive
78% Degradee
I think that's surprisingly accurate!
Another note! I'm wearing a breastplate in many of my pics, and wear it on cam and out in public, so please recognise that the twins aren't real, however impressive they are! I do wear for meets, and hope that they'll be appreciated and enjoyed like the biological girls' E cups would be!
I'm hoping that (once in a place of my own) the blessings of Estrogen and Progesterone (and maybe implants, once the HRT has made some space) will let me hang up The Twins in the future...
A few years back I decided to lose the facial hair as a experiment and... Dammit! I looked like an elderly "admirer" when in boy's clothes! Didn't recognise myself, it'd been 30-odd years (some of them very odd) since I saw my chin - eek! Daughter asked "Who is this old woman?" I'm keeping the face smooth like elsewhere, if I can get my skin to calm down after 30 years hiding its light beneath a bush! Currently i often look like i've exfoliated with shards of broken glass...
I'm been VERY intensely studying the contouring/feminising makeup tutorials on YouBoob.... And maybe have a nip'n'tuck for the jowls....
Some years back a New Year's resolution was to visit local clubs (and if they have a dungeon... Ooh) and attend local munches (what lovely people!) to meet the local kink community, and to be Jacqui everywhen and everywhere I can, and not just "on the pull" and at "adult" venues! So...been out watching bands and dancing as myself quite a bit, and frequenting social evenings in vanilla pubs, and despite the machinations of writers of crappy childrens fiction, right-wingers looking for scapegoats, and religious nutters, real acceptance and no hostility among the crowds or in the Ladies, just smiles :) Young lad staring at The Twins, when he noticed i'd noticed "Your... necklace is beautiful!" - yeah, right....
Dancing to Techno for hours in heels did leave my ickle feet complaining for a weekend, but worth it!
Followed on from the Poverty Diet with OMAD Keto, now under the protective wing of St Mounjaro, plus more exercises to do as advised by a nice Personal Trainer i chatted with for an hour online, explained i'd hit a plateau on the losing-weight/gaining-waist, the extra exercises are... hard work! I think he's hoping to "check out" the leather jeans with a cane once i fit in them... Which happened a couple of weekends ago, top button done up! I suppose i'd better let him know... They've only been at the back of the wardrobe for 30 years... er... closer to 40...
ch-ch-ch-ch-changes!
Ex-landlord sold out from under me, so (Currently, June 2026) bunking with family and house-hunting - may be in line for a really tiny but really pretty cottage in the country and a return to "entertaining" guests from a temporary hiatus (no, not a hernia!) - better dig out the big fluffy towels, massage oil, soft lights and smoochy music, already know where the paddles and canes, cuffs and chains, and ropes and floggers are...

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