You look good, like a proper woman ! Good skin, female posture. Curious, are transvestite, trans woman, transsexual, or on female hormones.

People please, be aware that some posting on this site, as I am sure you are know, may be nothing but scammers, sitting in some office in perhaps Lagos , Nigeria. Take the "MissBrittany" who reached out to myself, and gently over the course of a few days brought me down her hidden sales / scam funnel, with teasing, sexual content, and then came the cost, a 50 euros charge for a certificate of ownership. Why pay that amount when it can be mocked up on Canva for free, and why pay in any case. I did question "MissBrittany", why was the charge in euros, and not sterling, as that's the currency for the UK, and "She ?" was very evasive. I did ask for a photo of her with a copy of the days British newspaper, which of course never arrived, surprise, surprise. Then the whole of that chat thread suddenly disappeared, never to reappear. Just be careful guys. Watch yourselves.

I would say quiet a number of men who post photos and videos of yourself on this site, while you may be dressed in the feminine clothing, and the lingerie and all that, if your body language still portrays your masculine image of yourself, and your manly attitudes, and characteristics, your just going look like a fella in women's clothing. Rather than looking attractive, which I assume is the look your going for, same as I would, were I posting, you may look neither like a man or a woman, just some sad, partly comical expression of humanity. Is that the look you really wish to portray. May I respectfully suggest that before you post images/ video's of yourself that you get into the girly / sissy / feminine headspace. Become the girl of your dreams in your mind first, and then hopefully your body language may become more feminine. As an example, never have I seen a real girl bend her knee and throw it up behind her, as I have seen in some photos here. Its just an overly exaggerated female pose. Mind, if your happy posing the way you like , carry on, but just be aware how it is precieved by some people viewing it, or when in public, or at social events. Same with the make up, sometimes less is better than more. I would like to say that some of the photos, and video's do look right, and feminine, but most do not. Just an observation, and a gentle suggestion, not a criticism. Either your all into this, or you ain't !

Time for honesty fellas. Does any man on here actually like being a transvestite / cross dresser. Come on guys, be honest. I do not particularly like been one, wish I wasn't in fact. I have discussed these issues with a few female psychosexaul therapists, with a view to removing these feminine feelings I seem to get fairly regularly, and the strong urges to act them out. My idea was by speaking to these therapists if they could not totally remove these feelings, perhaps at least they could find a way so I could dampen them down, and have more comtrol over them, rather then been overwhealmed by them. Well unfortunately they all gave the same response, which was, this is part and parcel of your character, your psychological makeup, and there was little hope of changing it, these feminine feelings, no more than one could change their sexual orientation by force.
They suggested instead of fighting and hiding what I am / was inside, it would be a whole lot more easier to actually accept what you are, and show yourself some self compassion, which sounds great in theory, not to easy to do in practice. I present to the world in general, as a masculine man, and thats a fact, not as a soft, possibly feminine man, and if thats they way you present , Good Luck to you. Just my thoughts and experiences on the whole subject matter.

Transvestism / Cross dressing seem very closely associated at least in my mind with being submissive, and its associated areas of interest. I would question why that would be. Whats all that about ?

I would say lets be clear guys, because that's what most of us on here are. We will never be women, unless of course having you fully transition, I would say unless your lucky (?) enough to have a smooth soft face, your always gonna look like a fella in a dress, and if you aint got the posture and deportment of a real girl, unfortunately your just going to look quiet comical, and I include myself in that. Mind having said all that, perhaps most on here accept they will never pass as a woman, and are not trying to, but when that familiar need and compulsion to dress feminine comes round, there really ain't nothing like stepping into the softness of feminine clothing, and adopting as much as is possible the mannerisms, attitudes and movements of a female. But more than that its the freedom to be soft, kind, gentle empathic, to allow for a time these generally female qualities, and characteristics to emerge, at least for a while. Such attitudes generally unacceptable in the normal masculine role. Lets be clear, a man having desires to dress as a female, is not what you would call normal behavior in the eyes of the world. I fully understand there are different shades of sexuality, and everyone is different. Thank God for diversity. But I question would a real woman, when finding out her male partners desire to dress in the feminine, would really lose all respect and love for him, when he turns out not to be the man she initially thought he was, and perhaps while maybe accepting him would secretly snigger at him, and look to move on and away from him in the very near future. As far as I am aware women in general are seeking a masculine man, they seek out that polarity, so that they can step into their own femininity with ease, unless they are perhaps lesbian, or some other slice of sexuality.
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See I dont crossdress full time, say once a week, for the reasons outlined elsewhere. But then when I've done the dirty deed, dressed up in the ligerine and pretty stockiings, and tried to mimic the movements of a female as best I can, and watch myself in the mirror, I can come to my senses quiet quickly, and see myself for what I am, a man dressed in womens clothing, and can whip off the female attire in a matter of seconds, and be back to my masculine self. When I am coming out of that enjoyable feminine trance, (cause thats what it feels like), I feel deeply embarrassed and ashamed, not all the time, but half the time. The I try to banish the memory of what I had just done, the female dressing, from my mind.

Why do you cross dress, just curious. For myself, at times its feels very much like a complusion, I just have to do it, or would at times I feel go mad.
Its erotic, sexual, comforting, stress release. An opportunity to allow this secret side of myself to emerge, without critical judgement, condemnation, shame or embarrassment. Then I put away the clothes untill the next time, and there will always be a next time .....

There seems to be such a preponderance of males on this site, which is fair enough, as its a site specifically for transvestites, crossdressers and sissies. But for those of us who wish to meet real genetic girls, its rather frustrating. Real girls into this lifestyle, who are open minded, accepting and non judgemental. If other cross dressers / transvestites want to get it on together, go knock yourself out ! and enjoy it, but not for myself . I am holding out for a real woman.