I began my transition in July 2025 as an obese man and just recently ordered my first dress. I have a Mistress who has been encouraging me to see myself as I am, a woman. She and I love each other and as soon as I can sell my house, I plan to move to California to live with her.

I am excited to make the change to be in a place where I can freely express myself without fear of judgment from those who don't understand me. My first experience was as a teenager when I tried on one of my mother's bras and have squelched the inner "voice" that kept identifying me as a woman, trapped in a man's body. I have purchased a variety of lingerie that I love to wear when home alone but I am anxious to get my dress so I can, in my mind, finish the transition to female.